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Fareed2004
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Posted on Wed, Aug 09, 2006 12:30

Hi Im Serious here guys! She was the perfect one for me now she is gone I cant get over it can you give me any advise it has been 2 years


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Posted on Wed, Oct 25, 2006 16:20

salaam bro.if u cant have her then allah never made her 4 you.remember if she was meant 4 u then she will be yours if not then look else where mate


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Posted on Sun, Oct 22, 2006 06:35

Asalamu alaikum, I know this hard to fathom but we should be happy when we get trials and tribulations from Allah (swt) it shows that He cares-it gives us a chance to get closer to Him, to ask His help and to remind ourselves we are not self-sufficient... It's hard losing someone, but all you can say is "hey, its all good i'm a muslim!" and that says it all! To all those people hurting, reach for Allah and ur pain will dissipate, insha Allah. Wasalam


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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2006 09:37

Assalam, its good that you spoke out. This way you can feel a bit relax. Broo just remember everything is happened happend for a certain reason. And All loves His flowers. As you are good Muslim you should accept Alla's will and should control emotion. Allah (swa) will give you a better woman which will be more valuable asset for you. Take care.


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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2006 06:53

Well brother, I think I know how it feel to lost someone you love as I myself encounter. I have been with the same man for about 16 yrs but was betrayed..it is impossible to forget but we have to have faith in Allah as He knows what our future holds..and be strong and I really wish you all the best in whatever you do.


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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2006 00:06

assalamu alaikum dear brother, As some of the brothers might have mentioned before, everything is in the hands of Almighty ALLAH, what He wills, is far better for us than what We think is good for us. I was in the same situation, but Allahw(swt) will bring you someone much better for you InshALLAh. We as humans, do not know where our Khair lies. 'InnAllah ala kulle shaien Qadir'. I hope that helps. Also, pray two rakaat nafl salat and InshALLAh ALLAH(swt) will take that feeling and thoughts away. take care brother, and I hope that helps you out InshALLAH.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 23:49

I am sorry it may sound ... crazy, but in this cases some times it helps to use after rape tactics. You should avoid any reminder of her, get busy with something that would take your mind away...you can find information about on the net.. It took me two years ... but i was immature then 5 years ago, now i laugh at myself, i hope you will to.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 14:51

dawood222000 and others- That lost love will always be in your heart and memories. Try not to let it spoil new and potentially better relationships.


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Posted on Sun, Aug 27, 2006 19:59

i feel your pain brother. i to just lost the love of my life. i just knew she was the one for me. when it happened i didnt eat for like 4 days and sleep like 2 hours in those days. like others say Allah will send someone to you. inshallah. hit me up


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Posted on Thu, Aug 10, 2006 18:56

Assalamu aleykum brother Fareed, it is all in the way you think.You have to tell yourself that there is another woman outthere like her(ex).you could add to say there is someone better then her out there.to me no difference women is women only difference is how sweet or how hateful(joking).I dont believe in ex.when you meet someone new you will forget the ex.that is the pain of being alone brother.A strong man can be alone even if it hurts.thats life.May Allah bless you with a pious woman. A want to add a joke since I am in a funny mood>>> A friend of mine said if you want to make a beddua(bad supplication) to someone you dislike wish for him to have a bad wife.LOL


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truthseeker2008
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Posted on Thu, Aug 10, 2006 06:37

I am not the expert, but I understand how you feel. You can't continue to allow your emotions to consume you or you will miss out on so much. You could have a women right there in front of you who would be the best wife and mother, but you are blind to her because you are allowing these feelings to control you. If Allah has written it for the two of you to be united then it will happen. He has not planned your life according to what you desire for yourself it is according to what he desires for you.


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SebastianJoshua
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Posted on Wed, Aug 09, 2006 19:57

hmmm... pretty hard to lost somebody you love BUT life must go on...


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