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Posted on Mar 06, 2007 at 10:00 AM

Assalamualaikum. I came across this proverb/saying: " MARRIAGE IS THE DEATH OF ROMANCE" and it made me wonder ...... Why is the chase so much better than the catch? Well, dear married brothers......what causes the death of romance? And dear married sisters.....is this true? And dear single brothers.......would you agree with this saying? And dear single sisters........if this is so, why would we then pursue marriage?? LOL ! Curious to hear your views........

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Posted on Oct 06, 2007 at 01:16 PM

Hm I dont think that. Romans in marriage is like rose. If you take care about it it will be good. Un:( lot of brothers and sister not care about that and their romance in marriage is death after some time. Why? They marriage is boring, they don't make any new. Brothers and sisters take care about that if its need you have to read more about that and to educate more about that without shame

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Posted on Sep 30, 2007 at 06:58 AM

because No adrenaline challenge ????...

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Posted on Mar 25, 2007 at 10:06 AM

I guess it depends on the motive of the spouse. In my case it was the green card and the green-eyed monster! It was suffocating but we are both happy now in our own separate ways. She got her green card and a new love in her life. I got my freedom card and a new life to love!

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Posted on Mar 22, 2007 at 12:22 PM

I think to kkep the romance alive in a marriage takes effort on both parts. I have been married for six years now and there are times when the romance is aive and others when it is not.But that jsut means you have to try harder to keep it alive and once you put that effort forth it blooms once again.

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 05:39 AM

u r not telling right

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Posted on Mar 10, 2007 at 02:39 PM

salam all, just thought i'd share a few pointers relateing to this topic: it's not marriage that kills romance, but the husband n wife involved..its damn hard work but...romance n the thrill of chase can be just as alive within a halal union..i.e. marriage...takes alot of thought, consideration, observation and gratitude..try it n c!

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