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fatima22
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Posted on Fri, Oct 19, 2007 20:59

Assalamualaikum, A married girlfriend wants very much to embrace Islam. However her husband and children are very much against Islam. If she really does convert, what happens to her marriage??? Can she remain married to the same husband or is it necessary for her to seek a divorce as the union would then be haram??


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Posted on Wed, Nov 21, 2007 20:40

ASSALAM ALIKUM SISTER,I READ THE STORY OF YOUR FRIEND SHE SHOULD NOT HESITATE TO CONVERT TO ISLAM.SHE SHOULD PUT ALL HER FAITH IN ALLAH WE ALL KNOW THAT ALLAH WORK IN A STRANGE WAY AND ONLY HIM (SWT)GIVES HIDAYA. ONLY ALLAH KNOW THE FUTURE SHE SHOULDN'T BE WORRIED ABOUT THE FUTURE AND LOOK AT THE BEST OUT OF IT.WE KNOW THAT THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE HOLD AND THE WIFE IS THE NECK, WHAT DOES MAKE THE HEAD TURN FROM LEFT TO RIGHT? IT'S THE NECK.WE ALSO KNOW THAT ALLAH MADE DIVORCE PERMISSIBLE BUT THAT IT SOMETHING THAT DISPLEASE HIM.MAY ALLAH GUIDE OUR SISTER TO THE RIGHT PATH AS WELL HER HUSBAND AND CHILDREN AMEEN. WASSALAM ALIKUM WA RAHMAT ALLAHWA BARAKATU.


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Posted on Tue, Nov 06, 2007 02:14

my dear sis, i think the choice is in her hand. it all goes back to her believe in islam and towards GOD. i know it is tough to make a decision when your future, ur kids future are involves in whatever decision u make. But in the end, who do u love most in this life? ALLAH Almighty One or your family?? My dear sisters remember this - your family are just like a decoration in this life cos when you died you are going to face ALLAH alone. and you are accountable on the things you do in this life. thanks is all my dearest sister. be smart in your decision that u make. Salam.


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Posted on Sun, Nov 04, 2007 22:32

ALLAH forgive us for all mistakes .but allah will not forgive who associate partners to him.


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Posted on Sun, Nov 04, 2007 22:12

assalaamalicum,if he is good husband good father,she loves him.we should love ISLAM FIRST.IT IS ALLAH who blessed her with good husband and father to her kids.Allah should be loved first.islam we have to follow.she loves him and he loves her,but see he is stronge in his christian religion and also love her.she is stronge to follow ISLAM???if she love ALLAH,she should accept islam then wait and explain for some period to her husband about islam,if he is not bothered to revert to islam then she has to leave him and work to become stronge in emaan.


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Posted on Sat, Nov 03, 2007 18:20

Salams, thanks for your replies. The problem is that the wife still loves her husband. He is a good husband to her and a good father to the children and he is also very strong in his christian faith, so the wife feels very sad to have to break up the marriage/family and so she is currently holding back on her conversion to Islam.


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Posted on Mon, Oct 29, 2007 11:07

assalaamalicum fatima,i rad some of ur blogs,i am asra.if wife wants to accept islam and husband still remain non muslim then she cannot have wife relation with that non muslim husband, she need to get seperated,as a mother she will have same rights on kids.As a mother she can have attachment with non muslim kids. well i am practising muslim girl.i like u and ur blogs.takecare


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Posted on Sun, Oct 28, 2007 15:33

She remains his wife for a period of time that he can join Islam.. after that she get divorced of him..


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