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Posted on Wed, Aug 01, 2007 18:43

Gosh! I went through a hectic and stressful phase! Feeling real lousy at the moment! resilience on the low level.... Heavy workloads ....... Constant business travels ...... Staff problems ..... One of the children at a Home, who I am sponsoring financially, got into trouble.... Friends, thinking because I am single, it is OK to just call me up in the middle of the night to cry their heart out when they have quarrels with their husbands/families...... And now I am down with some flu virus and my whole body and head, ache terribly........ Suddenly I woke up with the thought: What is LIFE all about?? Why am I working so hard?? Eventually it ends with death and then all the problems will be insignificant........ Why am I driving myself so hard?? Eventually even all that I have earned will be left to someone else to spend on my behalf...... Why stress myself with other people?s problems?? The sun will still rise the next day...... If only I could get out from this routine; Forget about financial security; Maybe travel round the world leisurely; Work at each place just to get enough to fund my next travel expenses; Do not get dragged into other peoples' problems; SIMPLIFY MY LIFE!! And when I am old and physically weak, settle at one place and await my end; Would this be the ideal lifestyle? Anyone can tell what is there really to look forward to in THIS Life?? Or is the flu virus playing tricks in my head?? X(


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Posted on Thu, May 08, 2014 09:31

I have a life-insurence,it doesnt benefit me but it prevents my familie of paying a lot of money for my funeral.thanx God my dad hade one cause the funeral and bringing him back to his native country costed us 7OOO euro.I would gladly pay millions to have him back but as that is not possible iam glad he looked forwards and made it a lot easier for my mother.



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Posted on Fri, Aug 24, 2007 03:12

As-salaamu 'alaykum, I think they hide and play games because they are after money via scams. I agree that there is no barakah ultimately in what they achieve, there cannot be even if they succeed. I further agree with you that, in an age of devolution, it increases the distrust in people and their good among us genuine characters, and that is bad, as we need an injection of hope, optimistism and greater trust, though ultimately, like light against a background of blackness, the contours of good are brought into greater relief by Allah through its opposite. On a practical level, I think one should organize a petition or something in that vein, among us, to address to the site owner to do more preventative work in this field, rather than leaving it to the stage of reporting after the event, which is often the product of fortunate chance, and occurs subsequent to the damage or the bulk of it having already materialized before the exposure. `Ahmad 'Ali


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Posted on Thu, Aug 23, 2007 11:29

Assalaamu aleykum wa-rahmatullaah, Ahmad, I have noticed same problem.. These scammers push their head in every bush. They are everywhere in midst us.. I also found out some wolf from this site. So sad, but truth.. And I believe there are more out there.. I would like to ask something about those scammers? Who you try to cheat? Are you so shamed about yourself, you do not dare to present your own ID here? What you are hiding for? Why do you play games with people? I think deeply in their heart...these scammers can never be happy.. They are doing wrong...maybe people can not see straightly at first sight if someone is scamming... But the truth...it won't burn in fire. It exists. It is real.. Lying is ugly and wrong..always, every place and every time.. Thanks to you scammers, I and many others will lost their trust in people... It's good, finally someone spoke out this problem. Thanks Ahmed. :)


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Posted on Thu, Aug 23, 2007 10:42

asallamoalikum,well at least as Muslim,with wisdom of quran & guidance of sunnah,u get questions in your mind & u also get answers too in your heart,let me share something with u,i was at my job & suddenly very proffesional looking lady from some bank approached me,asking me if i have life insurence?i said "no"she showed me plan,u pay this an this & u get this an this.so i just smiled at her,i told her,so i pay u all this & people after me get this & this?she said'yes' i said so whats in for me?u r telling me pay me this much every month & when u die we give all this money to family or someone else,do people really get fool with that,i mean once u gone,it dosen't matter who gets the benifit after.i was blocked in my mind before her approach so she got tired & left me all her information brochures to look at in my free time,but when she was leaving i told her u wanna know better life insurence plan,if u invest here it can benifit u here & multiply here after,which u get more benifits? she replied"yes"i open my bag & give her some dawah pumplets about allah,islam & day of judment,diden't have much time to talk at work,otherwise it would b great fun to explain her about investment in duniya & getting benifits here & herafter.but allah guides whom he will,the concept of this life was very simple for our nabi saws & his companion,so they strugle accordingly,hadith saying work as much for duniya as much you going to live here & work as much for akirah as much you going to live there,don't have proper words in english in my mind but hope u can still understand what am trying to say,our stress,blood pressure,pain,headache is growing cz we r investing in bank,where we see no return,so when we see investment going down the drian,alhamdulillah as muslims,questions bother us from inside but kufar forget about them,they b investing & investing constantly in bank which have no return for them at all but they don't even question,where my investment is?whats ...


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Posted on Thu, Aug 23, 2007 03:42

As-salaamu 'alaykum, allow me to digress a bit Fatima. I have seen a number of scammers on this site, without doing any thorough research. One of them, tyna4love, has got such a wide array of names, photos, features, ages, locations (cities, countries, continents), religions, profiles, sexual predilections, user names, on a number of different sites, and God Alone knows which others (police from 2 countries have been called in to conduct an inquiry), and creates this image of a humanly and socially unfortunate woman who will be so caring if care is shown to her, so that she can ask you for money at the first suitable opportunity; another is jessygrant who is 30 yrs old here and 18 yrs old at another site. One wonders how many exist out there. I think that genuine members of this site, or any similar one for that matter, should be protected by the site owner. Always better to have a joining fee,already a first filter, but that should be accompanied by the site's proactive sifting out of grass from weed. It takes little to check, on attempted registration, photos, names, profiles, usernames etc across the web. There are advanced search tools nowadays and it is our right to have the site owner make use of them, even to safeguard its own reputation, credibility and competitive edge. What do others think? Was-salaam, `Ahmad 'Ali

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