I am also of the opinion that it is not a question about falling in love with the right or wrong person. It all depends on which yardstick you are using to determine if the person is the right or wong one.
I have seen cases where the couple each have totally opposite characters but they are blissful together. Likewise there are those who possess similar traits but cannot seem to stop bickering with each other.
I feel that what counts in forming a happy union is not so much how compatible you both are to each other, but rather how each of you deal with incompatibility.
Assalamualaikum
I am also of the opinion that it is not a question about falling in love with the right or wrong person. It all depends on which yardstick you are using to determine if the person is the right or wong one.
I have seen cases where the couple each have totally opposite characters but they are blissful together. Likewise there are those who possess similar traits but cannot seem to stop bickering with each other.
I feel that what counts in forming a happy union is not so much how compatible you both are to each other, but rather how each of you deal with incompatibility.
Salam sis. I used to have this thoughts of Right/Wrong man. However, after experiences, I began to reject this misconception. It is not about the right nor wrong. I feel, the ones who stroll by just happen not to be the One for us, but just the right one for others. Doesnt mean, something which cant fit us, is wrong... I am in love with what I would say, the best amongst all I have met. But, I am still not sure if we fit. Thus, I no longer wana think about the rights and wrongs, cause it just tend to lower my spirit. All the best sis.
Salam sis.
I used to have this thoughts of Right/Wrong man. However, after experiences, I began to reject this misconception. It is not about the right nor wrong. I feel, the ones who stroll by just happen not to be the One for us, but just the right one for others. Doesnt mean, something which cant fit us, is wrong... I am in love with what I would say, the best amongst all I have met. But, I am still not sure if we fit. Thus, I no longer wana think about the rights and wrongs, cause it just tend to lower my spirit.
All the best sis.
Salam Halimah, The only thing I know, Love is blind. If we are in love, we sometimes ignore what the truth because we follow Love. I was there before and I know It's hurt. But life is the choice the same with Love. We can decide what we have to do only follow the love or trying to open our mind to the real life. If someone loves us, he should respect us too...not only love but Respect..not trying to control each other..that's what I'm learning from my past. If he starts to control us, we should be careful....LOve doesn't mean we are belong to one because Love should let us to be who we are as person....salam DIah
Salam Halimah,
The only thing I know, Love is blind. If we are in love, we sometimes ignore what the truth because we follow Love. I was there before and I know It's hurt. But life is the choice the same with Love. We can decide what we have to do only follow the love or trying to open our mind to the real life. If someone loves us, he should respect us too...not only love but Respect..not trying to control each other..that's what I'm learning from my past. If he starts to control us, we should be careful....LOve doesn't mean we are belong to one because Love should let us to be who we are as person....salam DIah
Hie sis..... What I want you to know is that you are not alone. I have also fallen in love with the wrong men before and it does terribly hurts. But be strong sis, for yourself and your kids. I wont be able to answer the question because I am also looking for the same answer. But I believe in faith and the saying, the is a right man for every woman. And Insyallah I believe in Allah Take care and best regards Salamz Seha
Hie sis.....
What I want you to know is that you are not alone. I have also fallen in love with the wrong men before and it does terribly hurts.
But be strong sis, for yourself and your kids.
I wont be able to answer the question because I am also looking for the same answer.
But I believe in faith and the saying, the is a right man for every woman. And Insyallah I believe in Allah
Take care and best regards
Salamz
Seha
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