A/C my muslim brother and sister my name is Mounira i'm 21 and i live in Sweden. I've got this problem and i want u guys 2 help me out. I'm actually a good looking girl i've had alot of men in my life who wanted to marry me ...but i always rejected them..no matter how wealthy,good looking,and nice he was i could always find something wrong with him. I'm not perfect myself as a matter fact nobody is. I always been looking for the right one..is he out there somewhere or should i rethink and get over it.... there is no such a thing called mr right...is that how it is or?. Anyway i would like 2 have some decent and useful advice from ya'll people help a sistah out
thanks for reading this / Mounira
A/C my muslim brother and sister my name is Mounira i'm 21 and i live in Sweden. I've got this problem and i want u guys 2 help me out. I'm actually a good looking girl i've had alot of men in my life who wanted to marry me ...but i always rejected them..no matter how wealthy,good looking,and nice he was i could always find something wrong with him. I'm not perfect myself as a matter fact nobody is. I always been looking for the right one..is he out there somewhere or should i rethink and get over it.... there is no such a thing called mr right...is that how it is or?. Anyway i would like 2 have some decent and useful advice from ya'll people help a sistah out
actually ive been the same way is it because u always find a problem because ur just not ready to settle down they say that allah has it written to whom u will marry so maybe its someone u never thought ull marry
actually ive been the same way is it because u always find a problem because ur just not ready to settle down they say that allah has it written to whom u will marry so maybe its someone u never thought ull marry
Assalamu alaikum You should look for a guy whos is religious who doesnot miss a single salaat who is patient and loves islam,Pray to ALLAH TAALA to bless you witha good husband
Assalamu alaikum
You should look for a guy whos is religious who doesnot miss a single salaat who is patient and loves islam,Pray to ALLAH TAALA to bless you witha good husband
I long time ago I thought love was an emotion, but then I realized it is a decision. There is no person who can be Mr or Ms write all of the time. Instead we are encouraged by Allah to be patient, forgiving, caring and committed. If a person is committed to making the decision to love another then they will forever seek a way to make things better than they already are. They will do so through recognizing that the only thing and person that they can change is themselves and the perspective they have of all that is around them. Thus if something in the relationship should cause problems, the couple talks about the problems to see how they can change their own perspective or their own methods to better accommodate the other. In doing so they will surely find a compromise or perhaps even a sacrifice that will bring back balance, peace and joy with in that relationship.
My only suggestion is to make sure that your life partner can agree with you in advance of marriage on at least that one aspect of love.
Salaam Mounira,
I long time ago I thought love was an emotion, but then I realized it is a decision. There is no person who can be Mr or Ms write all of the time. Instead we are encouraged by Allah to be patient, forgiving, caring and committed. If a person is committed to making the decision to love another then they will forever seek a way to make things better than they already are. They will do so through recognizing that the only thing and person that they can change is themselves and the perspective they have of all that is around them. Thus if something in the relationship should cause problems, the couple talks about the problems to see how they can change their own perspective or their own methods to better accommodate the other. In doing so they will surely find a compromise or perhaps even a sacrifice that will bring back balance, peace and joy with in that relationship.
My only suggestion is to make sure that your life partner can agree with you in advance of marriage on at least that one aspect of love.
This is my advice, I say you should go for the guy that steals your heart. The one that you feel connected to. Or even better a guy that is really connected to his religion. Other guys that you mentioned are not going to do you good. so be patient and you'll find the right guy knocking on your door.
peace
salaam mounira
This is my advice, I say you should go for the guy that steals your heart. The one that you feel connected to. Or even better a guy that is really connected to his religion. Other guys that you mentioned are not going to do you good.
so be patient and you'll find the right guy knocking on your door.