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Posted on Tue, Jun 06, 2006 07:53

Assalamu'alaikum! Today is the day when i am going to meet a non muslim girl. i really like here and she is reayll attractiv. my brothers say that she is just playing with me and that she is a german slut (sorry for that bad word), but maybe i want here as my girlfriend. what can i do to make her like me as a muslim i am? i have fear that she dont like me because she thinks i might be a terrorist or something. are there ways to convert her fast? can i make her a muslim when i pray for her?


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Posted on Sun, Jun 11, 2006 17:26

hi my friend my idea is that you should send her a big letter of her language what ever she speaks express your love for her and inshallah i will prey for you


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Posted on Sat, Jun 10, 2006 01:52

salaams, for assuredly my beloved brother in as-islam, it is ALLAH who makes muslims, it is not you. therefore, there is no fast or easy way to convert not just this non-muslim woman, but anyone for that matter. i think you really need to revert back to your deen and understand what it is to be married in islam and what it is that we marry for in islam and it is to my understanding that physical beauty is not at the top of the list. i believe religion and piety are at the top of that list. just think if ALLAH were to strip the sister of her outer beauty, will she submit herself to ALLAH(swt) then. for certainly, it is not her beauty that should or will submit, it is her whole self. muslim = the submission of one's whole self to ALLAH alone.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 09, 2006 18:13

Bruvs, me again, listen jus chill and explain to her you are muslim and your beliefs i.e five pillars of islam. If she respects you for that then, do as your heart pleases as it is Allah that makes your heart beat! As for the sisters that ans, it is true what you say, but by guiding non-believers from the hell fire are we not doing a good deed????


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Posted on Fri, Jun 09, 2006 13:13

Lemme reply to sister amrikiya that Muslim girls are by far much more attractive and desirable than non-Muslim girls. Just a little piece of clothing (Hijaab) makes a girl far more desirable than she would be otherwise. One of the reasons why some Muslim men marry non-Muslim girls (in the west) is that they see these girls in their tank tops and bare midriffs and get all horny and excited and their reasoning gets all clouded. They do realize that if they married a Hijabi Muslim girl, she could dress up like that for him indoors and she'd be even more attractive than the girls you see outside. However, since the visual "memory" of the non-Muslim girl in her tank top and cut-offs is stuck in their mind, they can't think straight. Muslim men who make this mistake are in my opinion quite stupid and can't be trusted with their wisdom. It'd be one thing if the girl became Muslim because then I think it'll be a better idea to marry her.


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Posted on Wed, Jun 07, 2006 12:14

As a muslim sister, I am very disappointed in you. Why are you trying to go after a non-muslim girl when you are clearly *SURROUNDED* by so many decent and good muslimah sisters who are available for marriage?! This is EXTREMELY upsetting to me. I have never understood why muslim men always want to go after non-muslim women... then they get married to them and wonder why the marriage ends in divorce! Hello! Wake up! Just because she looks beautiful on the *OUTSIDE* does not mean she is beautiful on the INSIDE! She can never be as beautiful as a true muslimah who has accepted ISLAM as her faith. And NO, there is no FAST way to convert her to ISLAM and you should not even be thinking this way. There is NO COMPULSION IN ISLAM. Why don't you LEARN YOUR RELIGION!


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