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sanam2006
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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 23:33

salam sisters and brothers. i will tell my story here it goes in my school there is a guy that i love so much and he loves me too but on my back he went out with girls alot of time and now he want to marry me. but i don't know if he is good guy or not. now i am not talking to him because we fight about something i don't know that should i talk to him or not or should i wait for his call frist. i missed him so much but i don't know if he missed me or not. if some body smock or drink are they bad. i need help khoda hafaz


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 21:00

Salam sister, I felt so sad,about your story.For me,it's better to stop communicating him or leave him.he is not a good guy.i know it's hurt for you.If he really love you,he will not give you pain.And about his drinking attitude,let him do.He will understand later.I hope Allah will find the right guy for you...Khoda Hafez...


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 20:40

that's ot good sister


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 20:34

asalamu alykum Dear sister, if the guy drinks and smoks and went out with other girls behind ur back, then he is not good person for u all he wants is to make ur beautiful life misreable. because drinking is big sin in our religion and smok is bad for health. so sister i think this guy is not in to u so u should find other person who is honesty and loveing. i'm sure u can find the person u deserve.and pray salatu istiqarah i'm sure that Allah will help u find the best. Insha Allah Ur truely sister Afnaan


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 20:24

i would leave it alone sis,theres alot of good muslims out there if hes cheated before he can do it again plus muslims shouldnt drink


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 18:47

DEAR SISTER It's realy very sad that you can love such a Bad guy, as long as you knew that he Drinks , Smokes and so on. Smoking may be acceptable But Drinking is Sin never allow that SIster. i wish u the Best


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 14:04

Salamu Alaikum sister If someone is smoking or drinking he is surelly bad. I would like to speak with you, but I am not gold member. Abdul-Hady


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 12:23

i am KaYaHaN i m from Turkey/Antalya i want freinds


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Posted on Sat, Jun 03, 2006 13:12

sanam!dont go 4 that guy who dont respect woman,the most respectable creation ALLAH has made, for me atleast.Trust me.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 02, 2006 09:54

salaam love can be complicated sometimes. But the thing is observe that person that you love. If you think about,ask your self would this person be this to me, or this. Go further before you take a step. Now that you mentioned the guy smokes and drnkes, i don't think that you should mess with him at all. I mean if the person that does all those stuff problem soon he will get into depresion and you don't want him to drag you with.So leave him out. And look for a guy that is honest and loves you for who you are instead of a guy that goes behind your back and date other girls. I say that kind of a guy has a bad impression on hime self Hope you find him soon


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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 02:47

yes if some is drinking is not muslim he is bad u dont mary him he is againest the islam i woul like to tell you look another one


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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 02:40

yes if some is drinking is not muslim he is bad


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Posted on Sun, May 21, 2006 00:51

Assalamu'alaikum, Dear sister, if someone really love you, then he will not play with your feeling. i think he will not go or see other girls behind your back. he will be honest with you about his relationship with other girls, if he really wants to marry with you. if you are confuse and don't know what to do, then plz do istikarah. insha allah you will find the best solution for your problem. ^-^ Wassalamu'alaikum


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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 14:27

hi i read y story just because someone smokes it don't make them a bad person if this man is cheating on u than i would advise u not to marry him his behavour makes him look bad u will find y soul mate one day good luck shawna


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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 12:48

DEAR SANAM FIRST OF ALL I WUD LIK ETO TELL U THAT ONE WHO IS A SMOKER IS NOT A BAD PERSON.. BUIT IF HE DRINKS ..ITS AGAINST ISLAMIC TEACHINGS.. THEN HE BECOMES A BAD PERSON... MORE OVER.. IF U R INTERESTED IN HIM U SHUD GO FOR IT.. BUT MAKE IT CLEAR TO HIM THAT AFTER MARRIAGE HE SHOULD NOT DRINK OR HAVE RELATIONS WITH OTHER GRLS.. THNX


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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 07:25

salam sister. You know sometimes love can be a very dangerous game. You do not know what is right or what is wrong. You cannot simily tell the difference. You said if someone smoke or drink are they bad...Drinking alcohol is the rule against Islam. You should look at yourself, and ask..."Is he really worth it" What if you get married and he still drinks. There may be conflicts in the future. Sister don't break yourself just for a guy you do not know if he misses you, there are greater things in life that Allah has provided. Raza


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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 12:03

Assalamualaykum If you want ur partner to be respective towards you and be happy with you till then end of your life,then you should choose someone who is pious(taqwa).And 1st preference of islamic marraige is tht the selection should be first on the basis of deen then the other stuff continues. You can do Istekhara also thts the best solution . Jazakallah


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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 08:27

i am alasna i want freinds


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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 08:11

Salaam Sister, I am not one to judge whether someone is good or bad. All i will say is do everything for the sake of allah and you won't go wrong live your life in accordance to our beloved prophet's sunna and you won't go wrong if you do this you will surley get the answer that you are looking for!!!!!!!!!! You need to think about your life carefully this is a very important time in your life let's say you marry this guy for instance when he goes out drinking will you be able understand that will you trully believe he is being honest with you or will you be looking over your shoulder and seing whether he is being faithfull to you. I don't have a great deal of knowledge but i have heard that allah gives you a partner worthy of you do you believe he is worthy of you???? I will pray for you may allh give you guidence and bless you!!!!!!!!!


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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 07:42

Wa aleykum Salam sister, leave him he is no good after marriage he will engage with other women it is a disease.Wait till Allah sends (meet)the one who is worthy for you.


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