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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2008 21:13

I just wanted to thank you for your prior advice to me ..........Few months ago I asked for help when I really honestly needed it and you are the one who truly went out of her way to give me the best advice possible. I want it to tell you it really helped me so much when I was really in pieces and opened my eyes..........I am still not completely over my ex but I met a wonderful and swwet person with a big big heart and faith in Allah who is starting to be very important part of my life .........without even looking for anyone ....Today I have been thinking of how much I cried and how bad I felt few months ago .......and who opened my eyes and helped me think out of all my friends ........turned out to be someone I dont even know ..........you Fatima :) I just wanted to point this out in front of everyone who reads blogs here as I am sure there is a lot of you out there who also got some very good advice from this lady. Fatima I wish you and your family all the blessings inshaallah and again thank you for everything. Take care Ma Salama P.S. would love to exchange e mails with you but not a gold member here let me know if we can find a way to chat sometimes .....it would be my honor to be your friend thanks


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Posted on Tue, Jan 06, 2009 19:54

Salaam,I hope you and yours are in the best of health and life is treating you well,Insha'Allah. Having been away from MF for quite a while I was unaware that you had a blog.I am delighted to read that some of the stress and pain you were suffering from appears to have been alleviated with your moving on from your ex. You say, "anyway it turned out that my ex had another girl and wanted to marry us both without me knowing it....let me tell you it was an extreme shock for me". Unfortunately,it was not a shock for me,far from it.In my response (24.12.07) to your blog,("am I going crazy or what". 22.12.07) I questioned why your ex would say to you, "he would not marry another girl,why would he say that"? I went on to say, "IT WOULD NOT SURPRISE ME IF HE IS PLAYING THIS SAD,PATHETIC GAME WITH SOME OTHER SISTER TOO". One of the qualities I like about sister Fatima22 is her modesty. Not only does she seem to bend over backwards to try and help others but she refuses to accept any credit for her actions.I also believe that sister Fatima22 deserves recognition for her efforts to help others.Not only does she come across as intelligent,kind,caring, considerate and genuine but is also very down to earth.May Allah SWT shower his blessings upon sister Fatima22,ameen. I was delighted to see that you have moved on from your ex,who was by all accounts,a very manipulative and ruthless character.I hope and pray that life is much better for you and yours in the future,Insha'Allah. Take care, Allah hafiz


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Posted on Wed, Apr 09, 2008 09:01

Gosh, your ex is a terrible cheat! Alhamdulillah you have broken off with him. You were so kind to even consider helping him out with his financial problems while he had the nerve to want to keep his intention about his other marriage secret from you! I am sure Allah swt is protecting you. Your heart is pure and kind. I will pray hard for you that you will be abundantly rewarded with happiness for all the pain and sacrifices you went through, and that you will get a man who can really treasure and appreciate such a beautiful heart as yours. Stay strong my dear friend and always look forward. And never waiver in your devotion and trust in Allah,the Most Great. When at times you find it hard to go on, just remind yourself that you are just going through a test and Allah swt. will never abandon you. Allah is the Most Generous and Most Merciful. If a servant remembers Him often, He will surely remember this servant even more. Another way i find very helpful for me is to dzikir a lot. Whenever i am doing any tasks, e.g. cooking, cleaning, driving in my car, etc, I do dzikir in my mind and i always can sense peace and cheerfulness in my heart. Plus, whatever tasks i was doing while i dzikir, will always turn out good....e.g. my cooking will taste perfect, i get a pleasant drive and easy parking space, etc. Try it.... and insyaAllah, you won't have time to think of your ex or the hurt he caused you. My best of salaams to you.


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Posted on Mon, Apr 07, 2008 08:17

I am so glad you did read my post :) you will have to excuse me but lately I dont come to the website so often .......anyway it turned out that my ex had another girl and wanted to marry us both without me knowing it ........let me tell you it was an extreme shock for me ..........and even though its very hard at times I am moving on ........like I told you I met a great guy whom I am getting to know better day by day .........and who knows except Allah what future brings. Its very hard for me to trust people right now .....but I am trying and praying a lot. Anyway I hope everything best for you and your family salam


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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2008 08:03

Dear Siniram I was suprprised by your blog here and i thank Allah, the Exalted, that things are begining to get better for you. I am so happy for you!! :D You are too kind with your words. I cannot take any credit because i believe it was Allah, the Most Generous, who was actually helping you. I was perhaps just a "tool" or a means in the process, to relate the advice to you, as i believe it was Allah who must have inspired these thoughts in me for you. You deserve happiness, as you seem like someone who is always ready to give happiness to others. You were just going through a trial period, and now you are being rewarded for the pain you went through. Like they say, "After the rain or storm, comes the rainbow..." So enjoy the Rainbow, girl, with all its splendour and beauty! I pray that this new person in your life will cherish you and help you get over your ex completely. Your ex does not deserve all the tears you shed because of him so try not to waste anymore tears and efforts for him. Allah willing, I try to help anyone in any way i can. Whether i know the person or not, is of no importance to me. Often i feel so overwhelmed by the blessings showered upon me by Allah swt that at times i feel that i cannot thank Him enough. So by other ways, i try to help His other creations whenever i can because of how generous He has been to me. Thank you for your duas and i wish the same for you too. Stay happy and always try to look at the brighter side of things. You take care too & the very best of my Salams to you. fatima PS. I am not a gold member neither so for the moment perhaps we may have to continue corresponding through the blogs, forums or comments posted. [Actually it is an honour to me that you regard me as your friend ....:D ]


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