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butterfly2003
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Posted on Sun, May 21, 2006 09:43

Salam
My son, your child should always be your first priority, your love for your children go deeper than anything or anyone.
ALLAH HAFIZ



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Posted on Sun, May 21, 2006 08:55

Assalam Alaikum,

I do not know what exactly the circumstances behind this question are but I hope the question has nothing to do with the real life.

My opinion is ;
Beside the other countless reasons for choosing to rescue the child , the most important is that Allah has made the mother the caretaker of her child ( rae'eah ) and we will be questioned about it on the day of judgement.

Make your Do and Dont's in accordance with what pleases Allah , He will take care of pleasing you. Fix what it is between you and Allah , He will fix what it is between you and people.

May Allah Bless You Sister.



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 23:31

It is natural, every mother in this world has prefernce of her children over any other relationship, even her husband. So, it does not matter Son or daughter, children come first.



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 21:19

Assalamualaikum,

I would save my son if i were in that position. My heart would be broken for losing my love but losing a child....no mother would ever think about it



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 21:10

i will go strictly with sister Naila.As i also heard since my childhood tht,u can get as many mens or womens in ur life,but u cant get any of ur own son,father,mother,brother, sister and every blood relative in ur life.



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 18:03

Well I am sure you can produce more with the loved one



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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 00:24

only time will tell but it is hard to specify and also it depends on how intense is your love to the concern person



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firdaus06
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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 00:12

both



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Posted on Tue, May 09, 2006 12:12

Its a difficult choice but since he is the father then he should be. In way he is your child also because you being mother and female. love mojo



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Posted on Tue, May 09, 2006 10:31

VERY DIFFICULT?



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Posted on Mon, May 08, 2006 20:27

Salam,

My son... without question, a mother's love is just too strong.



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