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Fareed2004
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Posted on Tue, Aug 08, 2006 10:31

Assalamu Alaikum Intrested topic! hmmmmm! hi we are all grown ups right? we know right from wrong ok. and having sex before marriage is certainly wrong. Our religion does not promote this, but yet we find ourselfs victims caused by our relationship with our partners! Y? jus 2 satisfy each other and our desires.some of us may try 2 fulfil our desires and then end up being hurt in the long run physically, sprituality,emotionally and 9 months later regrets. Please just stay away. Sex is SO much more special when you wait to share it with a person that you'e committed to for the rest of your life. I've had many friends that have had sex before marraige and regretted it, but I've never had one friend who waited until she/he was married and regretted waiting. It might seem like everybody's having sex, but they're not, are you? it will be much better if you wait until you can share it with one special person- your spouse!


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Posted on Sun, Aug 20, 2006 11:50

Guard ourselves against our greatest enemy.....Satan...and guard all entrances....he uses to destroy us...such as egos....being proud, arrogance, thinking we are better, showing off, etc, anger, desires.... sexual desires, jeolousy which can make a person do black-magic on others or even kill others, etc. Guard all entrances and keep reviewing ourselves to check our intention and deeds and most important to ask God to guide us as we have no power to do any good deeds at all without the almighty wanting us to do it.(Check out Prophet Yusoff (Joseph), peace be with him, prayers when confronted with sexual desires encounters... he was very humble and said he will surely be one of the losers if God doesn't help him resist the temptation, and thus cried out to God to help...and God help him..)Who are we? We are nobody, 100 years ago, and we will be nobody 100 years from now, so who are we now? ... Yes, a nobody.....meaning we must always be humble and really seek God's help day and night and never have even a 'mustard seed' of pride in our heart... for indeed it is an entrance which Satan will use to destroy us. God, the Greatest, the Truth, the Eternal! Peace be with you and all..... a brother from the faraway land of the "Lion City"


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 08:44

Hey its reality in our society.Initially I was never convinced about such things can happen in our society. But being a doc i have been asked about postcoital pills to avoid pregnancy by few of my muslim friends. Its common in nonmuslims but not rare in our community.Its actually attractive idea of young age poulation. One thing is clear.I have never beaten by desires of such thins and so When I stand for salat i dont feel guilty and am able to concentrate on prayers. I do thank GOD for protecting me.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 17, 2006 08:49

Hi know body reply or posted acomment then you all are guilty


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