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jlseagull
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Posted on Sat, Mar 31, 2007 03:27

If you feel strongly about someone but that person is not responding at the moment, would you continue your pursuit? Would persistence pay off eventually or it'd be like knocking on hard wood?


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Posted on Sun, Nov 11, 2007 02:54

Hi there. I suppose that you are talking about an amorous pursuit. Why is this person not responding and is their reason valid? these are questions to which i hope you already know the answer. But isn't coming together an act which is done freely and willingly. There seems to be an imbalance of feelings and desire here already, is it safe to build a platform from which to start a relationship when the beginning is virtually non existent, what ever the reasons are only you would know whether it is worth your pursuit or not.But why would you want to continue to pursuit something which is not responding to you? Perseverance...can pay off as well as have negative circumstances. e,g, one might lose respect for those who persist, at times they start see them in a positive light and start to developer newer feelings. So it is a matter for you to decide how you wish to proceed.

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Posted on Sat, Apr 14, 2007 19:41

looking from the prospective of males , you should persist pursuing , but looking from the prespective of females is another story.


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Posted on Fri, Apr 13, 2007 13:11

Well..., good things are not easy to get.


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Posted on Thu, Apr 12, 2007 09:43

no harm trying...who knows what we will get, just try it as long it's not against syariah


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