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Saridewirahmat
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Posted on Wed, Aug 30, 2006 05:04

Bissmillahirrohmannirrohim...Some muslem... They don't care with laws or Al-Quran. just be muslem in their identity... Lots of them of course are doing muslem syariat very well. So what do think guys more better... Marry with original muslem with some bad character and wish Alloh SWT opens their heart one day to be good...? Or marry with an other religion beliefs... Who they have abilities to be good muslem... And perhap of course... They become mualaf because married. Something isn't good too... Thanks. Wassalam


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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 04:35

In Indonesia... No more allowed since... 4/5years ago, if I'm not wrong... But our country still allowing 5religions(Islam, Kristen Protestan, Kristen Catholic, Buddha and Hindu for Indo citizen free choice's). At moment, still lots peoples do, mix marriage. They do in outside of Indo usually, like they do in Honkong, Australia or others country. Example wife/husband is Christian, she would cook, company a husband eat sahur, even they do fasting too just for join with family ritual in Ramadan, without become Muslim. & the viev from outside,they are success until now, but who knows from inside...? Wallahu'alam. Other example: Some of them... Usually Christian man did...Have a very ill wife many many years, came to my father, said want be Muslim and marry with a innocent/naive Muslim woman. After few years, he's starting back to the church and push his new wife too. Or some priest /commune from church comes and push her too. Final the story usually: the Muslim woman become Christian or divorced. Your word not hurt anyone... we all can discus anything what we want to, here, right? So, in Indo not allowed anymore... mix religions in Indo marriage systems, made it some problem just. Wassalam


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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 03:31

Im curious & a bit confuse regarding muslims allowed to marry their partner with different religions than his/hers.Example,muslim guy take a Christian/Hindu girl as his lawful wife and vice versa.They live together,seperate believed in GOD(I pray mine,u pray yours)& when they have a child,this child can choose either or neither one of his/her parent's religion to be his/her own..All this under one roof.One country that i knows thats allow such practice is Indonesia.Care to comments,Ms Sari?Sorry if my words hurt/offend anybody in anyway.


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Posted on Sun, Sep 03, 2006 06:41

Assalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu Bismillahe ArRahmane ArRahhime For both Muslim and Muslimah, the firemost criteria to look for in a spouse is (1) taqwa {knowledge, love and fear of Allah (SWT)}, eemaan (faith islamic pratice and obedience to Allah (SWT)}, and a kind and soft heart. When you find the two first qualities, you also usually find the third and last one. You will aslo discover that this potential spouse is patient and searching to do good for his family, his neighbors and this community. Always pray Istikhara, seeking guidance from Allah (SWT). He is the Only One who knows what is best for us.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 02, 2006 12:07

Of course I like to be a friend with you too... We are all just one of big family exactly. Salam brother :-)


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Posted on Thu, Aug 31, 2006 04:10

So you means can't marry man or woman, who they become muallaf just cos for marriage? In Indonesia... Many my friends and Indonesian peoples with chinesse blood in their body..., becomes muslem and then they really become very good. Some... Fasting in Ramadhan, pray 5times or maybe more each day.. fasting every Monday and Thursday... So for example... If I want marry other religion man, then I must wait he becomes muslem because him self... and wait him becomes the good one...Then marry him, like that? Or must marry with muslem man just. Wait them until they come... Or just wait takdir and be pantience, doing more sholat istikharah before do anything..., it's mean can't...? But who knows about our takdir? Wallahu'alam bisawab...right? btw thanks :-)


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Posted on Thu, Aug 31, 2006 03:31

Slam to everyone. Actually Muslim men are only allowed to marry a women who is either Muslim or belong to a religion who also have a Holy Book like Muslims....where as Women are only allowed to marry a Muslim man. From men point of view I have send a Blog which will appear in one or two days that what they should look for....while searching a woman to marry. So in this regard, it is the duty of "Waali" you can say the elders of a woman to find good qualities in man who is Muslim and also implements Islam in his life. Best Regards..


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