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Destinydaisy
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Posted on Thu, May 10, 2007 16:18

does anyone ever wonder when they are gonna get married? I do...;) Is even harder to find marriage minded person in a society where marriage is not so important and boy/girlfriend are the norms day today activity.


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Haleemah
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Posted on Tue, Jul 10, 2007 13:51

I feel the same way... an it seems like when you're trying the best and kepting close to youe deen it's jsut harder and harder... Sometime I feel like "dating" muslim non or whatever but I love my faith to much to go down that route...


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Posted on Mon, Jul 09, 2007 14:31

Salams everyone, i am only now begining to understand how difficult it is for a sister looking for a good husband as i am trying to help my sister find one. my advice is simply not to give up, stay strong and remember whatever happens, happens for the best and most importantly to praise Allah for everything. we have a habit of praising Allah when only good is bestowed upon us, but what about the bad times when we need Allah more than ever..? when we truly understand that whatever happens, happens for the best. then the question of when will i get married will start to become less important since we realise that its not in our hands. my advice to everyone is simply to continue making the effort to find someone using friends, family, mosques etc and to not give up. remain strong and focused and if your wedding day is written to happen then it will happen and nothing will delay it. Lastly i hope and pray will all my heart that Allah Ta'ala finds everyone a good sincere partner who will help them enter jannah Insha'Allah Ta'ala - Ameen


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fatima22
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Posted on Thu, May 17, 2007 10:24

I find that when i don't look or expect for something, it will always come. When i interact with people, it is always purely friendship in my mind. Then i get surprised when they become angry, jealous or possessive! I am always the last one to gather any hints that they view friendship with me differently... I fear attachments as it will eventually lead to possessiveness.....then i'll feel like an owned object and i feel suffocated. There is an old saying that we should not give footwears as gifts to someone as they will "walk away" from our life, meaning to end a friendship. When i previously owned a shoe shop, i used to give shoes and footwears as gifts to some people and they still keep coming back to my life! LOL!


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Fareed2004
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Posted on Tue, May 15, 2007 12:35

Assalamu Alaikum, Everyday I wonder, but who knows, Allah Almighty, I think i will never get married, anyway their is an old saying that when someone sweeps in front of your feet, you will never get married, i guess someone swept in front of me.


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Destinydaisy
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Posted on Tue, May 15, 2007 10:37

Insha'Allah you will meet the one soon. Sometimes I feel quiting and forgetting about finding the one.


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Posted on Mon, May 14, 2007 17:22

As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmahtullahi Wa Barakatu I feel the same way! I have so much to offer yet I am alone. Allah knows best So Insha Allah I'll meet him one day!


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