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Posted on Wed, Jun 06, 2007 07:48

Speaking honestly I have realised that when I speak truth I fall in some problem INSTANTLY. Specially if some one ask about my weak part of personality n I dont want to say no then my replies and answer can be dangerous for me in professional or personal life. So what is good, to be honest to be wise or to be clever and benign liar. I myself think being clever or harmless liar is not bad thing!


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Posted on Sun, Jul 01, 2007 02:07

In a competitive world where u are surrounded by people who are not your wellwisher how one can be honest? Any can be honest with people who are well wishers but to deal with other group of people is a problem and that was my question. Plz help me. waiting for wiser advice...........sammaaaaaaaaaaa


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Posted on Thu, Jun 28, 2007 02:52

assalamualaikum you have realised that when you speak truth you fall in some problem INSTANTLY. lack of confidence and no believe in allah. try to be a gud muslims be honest towrads everyone your problem will removed. trust me it is true do you know where i m living there is no single muslims. but i believe allah Insha allah your problem will removbe. khuda hafiz

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Posted on Wed, Jun 27, 2007 06:29

Assalamualaikum,...i agree with that the hardest thing that we want to able to achieve in this world is being honest to yourself


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Posted on Wed, Jun 06, 2007 23:42

Assalyamu aleikum wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatuh When we speak lie our brain is in constant tention since we have to have too good memory to remember all the lie we say because forgeting these facts can put us in some very awkward situation in future. I think it is better to say truth, to be sincere and honest with ourselves first and then with all the other people around. In general people are careless if you are weak or strong or something else. People care about themseleves since they have selfish nature (someone less selfish, the other one is more) Regarding me - i have learnt to take and love people the way they are. If you are weak, then Allah SWT created you like that. And He does know why you should be this way. I am weak at some points, too. And maybe it brings some sharm and feminine features in our female souls. If people around know you are Honest, Wise, Clever - they will forgive you any weakness. If they know you are Clever Liar they will be very careful with you and you can stay without their Trust. So, sisters and brothers. Let us be honest, wise and clever Insha Allah, let us not let each other down and love people the way the are. Ultimately no one is perfect. Wa aleikum assalyam wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatuh


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