-Wa 'alaykum assalaam warahmatullaah. SubhaanAllaah, sister you know the truth is the thruth and it never changes, just like morals and good things don't change. for example, swearing today or killing today will be as bad as killing or swearing tomorrow. Morals and manners, and woship and these things ever change, so if you find the truth earlier you will be content for longer because you cant't find 2 different truths, i.e. I can't tell you that God is one and God is two at the same time. it is paradoxical.
Perhaps you expect to mould your 'pattern of thought' after marrying based on your spouses pattern of thought. But then how do you know if he or she is on the truth if you have not found it yourself?
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