You should note that it is not permissible for men to start such websites or to visit them. The owner of this site is one of those who are addressed by the warning in the verse (interpretation of the meaning):
?Verily, those who like that (the crime of) illegal sexual intercourse should be propagated among those who believe, they will have a painful torment in this world and in the Hereafter?
Indeed he is more deserving of this warning, because the warning in this verse was addressed to those who like immorality to be propagated, so how about one who actually works to make that happen and become widespread?
This is the way that is known to end in what we see and hear and read about those who use these means to approach the opposite sex. How many men have lost their religious commitment and how many women have lost their honour? Some of them have found no other way but suicide to escape from the dark tunnel that they got into because of corresponding and speaking to non-mahrams.
-taken from Islam Q-A site.
so basically my point is tht u sisteers/brother need to stop making a despret display of ursleves, this is not the islamic way to find a spouse. it is jahilliyah.!
may Allah guide us all!
I guess I'm confused. The one Muslim who is complaining about it being a haram is in the United States, not one of the Muslim countries in the world.
I came here looking for a partner or companion, and I was told by a friend this was a good site to come and look, present what I am, and see if anyone was interested. How else do you meet? There isn't anywhere else that I know of.
ish, ish, ish... what's the problem here? if its haram to u, then stop coming to this site. it is as simple as ABC. by the way, haram is a very strong word. pls, check with someone of greater knowledge in religion before labelling something as haram.
sis u cant judge that a site like this is haram. it's depend on a person visited it. as muslim we hve to increse our unity between muslim in the world for example via this site.we can exchange any information and other positive things.the point is wht's for someone visit a site.if the purpose is for something positive, it's ok. otherwise, only ALLAH that know wht's in deep inside someone's heart
Asalaam Alaekum, Brother. I would like to ask you what about most occasion that is not easy to find right muslimot woman and most of brother trying to avid what Allah said Haraam. Sometimes you dont know anybody arround as mulimot or single while Islam say Islam religion of muslim is not complete till he/she has partner. could you pls enlight us any other way we can go through to find right person muslim. Thanks
All I can say is : if you're offended, don't use this (or other) sites.
Not everyone has a one-track mind. People use these sites for friendship and yes, perhaps for marriage.
And so what??
Get a life!
I have to agree that not all people signed up to this site to find their life partner or for online dating.
I signed up for this site because I live in an area where there are NO muslims. I have only converted to Islam a year ago and the only way I have of learning of Islam is online and by reading the Quran.
I feel that if a person is strong in Islam, this shouldnt be a problem for they have their own morals to keep them good. And if you meet somebody that you feel isn't to your moral standards...you can always delete!
HA HA HA SOME OF YOU ALL ARE CRACKING ME UP!!! fIRST OF ALL WHOS'S DATING? IM SEARCHING FOR A WIFE!!! BUT I WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF THE SISTERS WOULD PUT A SCARF ON PLEASE! I ALSO AGREE WITH BROTHER TANVEERMD, AND AFEW OTHERS TO SOME EXTENT. BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS THE PERSON THEMSELF, IM IN CONTROL OF NO ONE BUT MY OWNSELF, JUST LIKE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US. THERES AN ISLAMIC SAYING IF YOU HAVE NO SHAME DO WHAT YOU LIKE! THERE'S A HADITH QUDSI RELATED BY ABU DHARR AL-GHIFARI THAT IS VERY LONG SO I SHALL GIVE YOU THE LAST WITHOUT TAKING ANYTHING FROM THE MEANING OF THE HADITH ALLAH SAID" O MY SERVANTS,IT IS BUT YOUR DEEDS THAT I RECKON UP FOR YOU AND THEN RECOMPENSE YOU FOR, SO LET HIM WHO FINDS GOOD(IN THE HEREAFTER) PRAISE ALLAH And let him who finds other than that blame no one but himself. PONDER THIS PLEASE. ISLAM IS VERY SIMPLE WE MAKE IT HARD. SISTERS PLEASE PUT SOME HIJABS ON THANK YOU , YOUR BROTHER IN ISLAM HANIF
i m amased to discover a Field where Muslims could express their opinions freely what ever their age .its an important step to understand each others objectively . i wanna size the opportunity to say that we are just human not angels neither evils. sorry for my terrible english
I'm sorry if I'm reviving a dead post but why all this anger and judging? It can be haram if you come here looking for sinful things, I think Allah judges us on our intentions. I have to admit though some of the posts should be deleted by the moderators because they don't seem to go with the purpose of this site. All this angry talk reminds me of fire and brimstone speeches. PEACE brothers and sisters.