okay, well a man keeps emailing me and tells me im not serious. saying stuff about my pictures and how i shouldent care how i look. that i shouldent model . mind you....i model apropriatly with cloths on.
i feel as if im a discrase to alah ...wanting to hide my face for what he's said to me.
what do i do
i think marriage is really a serious matter but be honest with u wat ever she says is true now a days we talk about hijab and every thing but the way things r changing around us we all r failing to stop it....
I agree with you sister. There are many sisters (and brothers) in the West who seem to be having that problem. I am not trying to cramp anyone's style, but modesty IS best and that is very difficult to do in modeling, unless one is modeling Islamic attire, of course.
salams.well you are atrractive.by the way im a female,a lot of people can say what your doing is haram for showing off your beauty.we should sacrafice with our bodys minds and all of our souls to reach janna.now your are free to do what you please.it's your life and everyone is free to live as they please,by me saying that i will also say this.just think we are all going to meet Allah and there's no getting away fom it.there is no guarantee that you will always be beautiful.and that you will be healthy, or even stay happy for all these things are temporary.the only guarantee sis is our death and just imagine you knew you were going to die tommorrow as any one of us, would you still have the same lifetime?i don't think so.if any one of us knew we were going to die we would stop what we are doing and devote our last days to pleasing Allah.
As Salaam Alaikum my Palestinian Brother
I was married for thirty years and I'm now forty nine.We raised two Masha Allah good Muslim born children,both married now.I Attended College,Drove long haul Truck across country and now own my own business.All this with a Good Muslim Wife By my side.May Allah have Mercy On Her.I was 19 she was 17.Brother I say this because you specifically said young marriages don't work here in the west.And In Sha Allah I,m going to find another wife and Give Her 30 Years.So In Sha Allah I and all the other Successful Married brothers out there will forgive your Ignorance.There are some things "we here in the west" find offensive.Over generalization and false characterization being two of them.None of us Muslims like being characterized as terrorist or extremist so let us In Sha Allah not offend those who would offend us.As you can see brother I'm very Passionate about Marriage,but Masha Allah I'm alright now.As Salaam Alaikum
Asalamu Alaikum sister.... I really don't know what to say... yes, mashaALLAH you are beautiful but it's obvious that ur torn between ur muslim self and ur Western self-get a grip! MODELLING.....!? ARE YOU SERIOUS....!? Please read the Quran and find some guidance, ur meant to be hiding ur beauty not flaunting it! What kind of muslim man do you think ur gonna get like that? Im guessing only one that cares about how you look and not ur faith and iman.
If ur serious about marriage then atleast be serious about ur deen.
Please do not be offended by my comments, we are all muslims and go through our own inner Jihad but this is the advice I woould give my blood sisters. WASALAM X
don't worry mecan beauty, ur fine the way u are. I don't like that modelling thing too.
But u know ur limits, and seeing u here, reading ur profile, ur a great muslim girl. We are all proud you. Because you still try your best to be a good muslim woman even tough ur growing up in america.
Its hard, but hey, allah gives you things that he knows u can handle ;-)
bye, don't let things people say bother you too much. Everything happens for a reason, see, now you have advice from soo many other muslims
Selamu alaikum sister Mecan Beauty. I am referring you with this name as I don't know you real name.
As we can all see from the photos you are are beautiful elhamdulilah but you should also know that it would best be if you could wear a scarf as we all know the meaning of the verse where Allah commends the Profet salallahu alejhi ue selam to order to his wives to wear hijab.
The wearing of hijab is sign that shows that you are a muslimah and that you are chaste.
I pray God that you find a good husband that practices Islam in each step of his life.
And by the way, early marriage especially in the west doesn't live, that's based on many stories that I witnessed myself, that's one, two, we "Muslims" need people with Bachelor degrees, masters, and PHDs, marriage is family, kids, and big commitment, there will be a sacrifice. I'm not here to pick on someone, you can read my posts, and that's what I say to everyone, if you have a different opinion you are very welcome to say it, but I wish that you avoid personal attacks. Also I know what prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said, he also said "You know better about your world"
dont worry soooo much on what others say....believe what is in your heart to be true...about yourself, your character and how you carry yourself..wheather it be on here or out in public...as long as you know that you are NOT doing anything wrong...why worry about if others think you are or not????
okay its definitaly not right for a girl to fool around nor mess around ect ect...
by making a comitment i was doing the right thing........if your not muslim then i can see where your coming from.....but i was not looking for rude comments!