I had come on this site thinking I would be able to meet a man of a certain calibar and moral standard.

In a very short time, I have come across a number of players, either married or stringing a number of ladies along, wanting to get their hands in the candy jar so to speak.

I understand most men on here are decent and I am not trying to generalize at all.

I was wondering if any other ladies have had similar experiences?

Just say no !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

salaam,

md76,, ohhh yes sis i would like to be your friend , even though i'm way far away from where you you live, but i will try my bes,

LONELY GIRL IN GREECE - Dont let yourself be lonely. You need community help and the Islamic community is one of the most beautiful of all people. They will open their hearts and homes to you - so say salaam when you see one in the street, go to lectures on Islam and attend other functions where you can meet people. Surely there is a masjid in Greece? Good luck sister - may allah help you with your new life, your iman and protect you from shataan!

Sure...a player is someone who is not serious about a relationship...they just want to play with u in a haram way and leave. Most of the time they want a relationship without any commitment. Beware players, men and women alike; sometimes when u play, the player is the one that gets hurt.

Yes sister, they want to get their hands into the candy jar. Ihave had those experiences not only on this site but others also.

S.A 11162,
I just converted, and wondered if as a sister you would like to be friends, I dont have any muslim sister friends, so it gets lonely!..

take care..
inshalla we will talk Meryem

salaams sister yes unfortunateley there r a lot of PLAYERS!!! shaytaan is very clever!!! i hope u find sucess on this site good luck

ws

assalamailkum i would like to becomes friends with u if u r intersted please get back

Could someone or anyone please explain or tell me what what is meant by a player so that I may avoid in my conversations. It seems to be mostly direct towards men and that I want to avoid as man. May Allah help and guide us all.Ameem

Al- Salaam W-Alikum
I am so sorry to say so,but I did experience that as well. you open your heart to someone,but he gives you a hammer on your head. If I wasn't Cereus I wouldn't use this site.
Allah Hafiz

FAITH

Hi Ladies,
It seems as if shaytaan is working here too..

Men who do that are answerable to ALLAH (SWT)

This is not taken kindly to in ISLAM !

Beware ...


Tooni

hi, how r u do u need new freind

hi i like to mee you