I am a pakistani woman London married for 7 years and have 3 beautiful kids problem is my husband keeps cheating he has a bad habit how can i Change him ?...very distressed

Salam sister, I respect your courage to seek advice before over reacting, a good Muslim wife stands by her man in poor ness and wealth, in sickness and health, in all situations good or bad.     Many would often argue with me when I raise my opinion out loud, but I'm the type of sister that likes to keep the peace even in the most tragic situations. So if I were married, and my husband cheated on me, I would start with solving my issues first, maybe I neglected him? Maybe I was not making him happy ect. So sit down sister and seek in side yourself, no man would cheat if he were happy, comfortable at home.  Also now that you know his cheating, don't tell him, cause you will only make it easy for him to do it infant of you or just leave you. Only you will lose sister, a man never loses. do you duties without delay, smile, dress up beautifully, keep our house clean, abbey him, respect him,honour him, love him, do that sister, and he will repent and return home to u and your babies. May Allah give you patience and strength ameen... Salam... Email me if you wanna chat.

hi

ask him if he can be just to both then, ask him to get married and enjoy halal way if you love him for the sake of allah dont let him go to hell