intersting thoughts.. slightly cliche, guess different things work for different people. Everyones idea of romance is relative to their understanding and experiences....guess u can only begin by developing communication...IF thats a possibility : )
Needs to go for another "Honey moon" to a romantic place like Hawai or Switzerland, lots of roses and chochlates, nice perfumes, body rubs/lotions,and whatever each others likes are aka fantacies (Halaal ones ;). Yeah! do not forget the MISWAK and the Blue pill for both if old couples ;) LOL.
Sit by the clear private beach, drinking coconut water listening to the sounds of nature or take a strole feeling waves comming gently on your feet making them cool and holding a warm hands together.
Leave your heart up to your imaginations, feel the stress free lightness in your body, Oh! take a deep slow breath....