hi me gm from karachi .u r right its very hard to find someome but atleast its not possible just it takes lots of effort and courage and believe me there is someone for everyone .let me know if u need of any help in it .
Asalaam Alaikum Sister
I'm going to tell you a secret.I'm not very good with secrets that's why I don't really listen to them.But this is my own secret.I know personally that a good Women can shape and mold a man with a good heart into a good husband.When I was married I was a good husband.But I didn't start out like that.Allah Alum I had a good heart and she did the rest.So In Sha Allah look into a mans heart.You will know.
May Allah bless you now and in the hereafter Asalaam Alaikum
Is it hard to find such a good husband?
The same question that some may also ask is it hard to find such a good wife?
The word GOOD may be subjective to some people. But we may also ask what is it good in Islamic perspective.
To some people the word 'good' could refer to:
money, physical appearance, career,
personality, characters, manners,
status, intelligence, etc.......
So ask ourselves what good we refer to and look for......
Islamic teaching already give the guidance the meaning of GOOD husband or
wife and the Islamic teaching also give guidance how to get a good husband or wife. So its up to us to make into practice.
Yes it is not easy to get good husband or wife to Islamic perspective.
May be that good one in one in 100.
Anyway nobody is perfect......
Only Allah is the Perfect One.
All humans have their own strengths and weaknesses.
Yes, it is not easy to see people into their hearts. Sometimes what inside may not be the same what outside.
Sometimes we could only see the 'true colours' once live together, and it may be too late already.
Anyway don't forget Allah to find a good husband or wife, because ALLAH is All Knower. Allah knows the present and
the future. Allah knows what is inside
the heart of His servant. Allah knows what is 'true colours' of the persons.
Humans could only see the outer appearance, that is one of the weakness
of human beings.
DOA, PRAYS, Ask for Allah guidance and
leave everything to Allah to plan our lives in this world and hereafter......
Allah is the best Judge and the best Guidance....and the best to Give The Blessing.....
HOW YOU COULD TRUST ON AN UNKNOWN PERSON.THE PERSON YOU DONT KNOW ABOUT HIS NATURE,HIS FAMILY AND HIS FRIENDS CIRCLE.I DONT THINK ITS POSSIBLE BY CHATTING.AND I REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE LOST YOUR MOTHER TOO.SO SEE YOUR SURROUNDING AND ASK ANYONE FROM YOUR ELDERS OR SENIORS PERSONS OF YOUR FAMILY TO HELP YOU IN THIS PARTICULAR MATTER.
Internet is not the problem, the problem is the person your dealing with if you find it hard then use external help from sisters brothers any form of Mahram that can have a second opion. Because even if you meet threw family or friends the same Q rises Can I trust him is he telling the truth vice versa this goes for women 2
May Allah help us all 2 find the suitable partner.(amin)