I am a young girl living in the U.S. and getting ready to graduate from college.
There is a guy i've been dating for a year & we are perfect together ONLY problem is he is not ready to settle right now, he is not ready to talk to my family & his family right now bcuz he is not financially stable....he's outta college looking for a stable job.
On the other hand, there is another guy interested & serious about marriage. He wants to talk to my family and get their approval before talking to me first. He is financially ready & mentally ready as well. He is a little bit more religious than the other guy.
The problem is i feel i connect with the 1st guy and part of me feels i should be patient with him and things will eventually work out.
Then on the other hand the 2nd guy is ready & i feel if i let him go is like letting a once in a life time opportunity go....???
anyyyy advise or suggestions will be greatly appreciated!
I am looking for a man for my Muslim sister in law. She is 33 years old, Slender figure, wears Hijab, and likes to be at home. I am posting this for her because she doesn't go out very much. She loves children, and is looking to be in a serious relationsh
This may be a little late, and your decision probably made, but in case it isn't, I encourage you to talk with the first guy - your expectations from the relationship ought to be well comprehended by him. If those match (and most likely some compromise is in the calling), ta da!
If not, there is still an allure in the wait (it doesn't feel like one is settling simply because another person comes off sincere and ready - not that those are not desirable traits).