do you think it's possible that there are serious people who looking for serious relationships not just fooling around?

I agree. A "serious relationship" does require all those things. I'm sure most of us know what it's like to be in love. It's one of the most beautiful things that God could bless us with. Especially when one looks past the skin color, race & religion and sees the person for who they are. But at the same time, it's one of the most painful ordeals to ever go through. For those of you who have felt that pain, myself included, just keep your head up & trust God. He knows what's best for us more than we know for ourselves. His divine plan will not leave us unhappy for long. Hamdu Allah...

salaam my sis n bro, ..i think in a serious relationship..... i wan to say in a great big way la!!... V should to know each other.. to trust each other.. to hope each other!! ^-^ i agree sis, princess oso!!

In a serious relationship are including :
trust
love
respect
believing
Without them there is not a serious relationship

oh oh my poor Princess, hey that guy is really dumb to leave you, either that or he must be gay, cuz your hot!

oh yes ! i wanted to get into one and i did with a muslim man...he broke it off ..after all those promises he told me in they end" you thougt i really ment all that stuff?" .....it broke my hear ***crys** he told me i was stupid for believing

I agree with Amani, there are a lot of sincere people here, though I doubt the islamicness of online meetings.