ohh why u need 2 marry some one u didnt love, yes u dont know him in start but u wil know him and if u love u cna marry but its not right 2 marry any one just for married

On a TV series there was a song taht said:
" Love and Marriage..Love and Marriage,
thay go together..like a horse and carriage!"

Well according to some Quranic verses
there is no Absolute Love in marriage
relations. Somewhere in quran, God
says ( not word by word) that:

we made among you (two) courtesy and mercy ( maoaddatan wa rahma- in Arabic).

So obviously there is no Love in the level of " Romeo & Jullietee" here.

According to some philosophers who meditate to understand the essence of this univers ( wisdom-seekers, muslims
and non-muslims0, the Ultimate, absolute Love is the Love for the Creator, underwhich the other Loves(s),
if you will, lie under!..

Take care'll

Responsibility and liability comes next after the love and marriage. That what keeps one going when the going is tough.

salam all of u
if i were at this position i will first love then i will marriage to her this is good life wt i think.

wow love and marriage,like one of our brothers said "love is a big word and it is to be cherished as such.I love deeply and not many can keep up with my standards of love and marriage.meaning its an agreement between 2 and must always be respected as that. In this day and age that is so hard.I believe in true love and i know its out there some where , hahaaa so to my brothers and sisters , take care in this matter .for its not how many breaths you take in a moment but .....how many moments take your breath away. OK OK , maybe I'm to much of a fairytale way of thinking but i believe you relay should know each other and know that you have the same ways before marriage.

Brothers & sisters Assalamu Alaikum!!
In my point of view,Love is a beautiful experience which should emerge after marriage.That's the period it should be well matured and maintained...Other than that is definitely a disaster not only here but also in the hereafter....

ok you may be right but how about that from where come all divorces.my husband was love me and me too.but after 10 years we divorced.why.

OH YEA I WOULD SAY DA SAME ABT IT AS WELL MASHALLAH...
OH WOW IM SUPPRISED WE R IN DA SAME STATE. WOW
IM SAMINA BY DA WY


FIAMANIALLAH..

Well anything is possible, some probably can be married without love.
But personally I would not do it. I feel a marriage should be full of love. Love is so special that 2 people who share the same love will be strong in all. I dont think it is healthy to be in a loveless marriage. what is the point? If you are in a loveless marriage then I dont think you will ever be truly happy.
Imagine if you are in a marriage, and you have children..how will the children feel if you love eachother? and how would they feel if you did not love eachother?
I think 2 people that love eachother, and have a marriage with children, will have thier children to grow into great people. and the other the children may have problems with thier own life as adults.
I have seen it many many times.
so i feel, if you do not love, you should not marry.
many times some marry for all the wrong reasons..
i feel marriage should be based on love and only love....