On a TV series there was a song taht said:
" Love and Marriage..Love and Marriage,
thay go together..like a horse and carriage!"
Well according to some Quranic verses
there is no Absolute Love in marriage
relations. Somewhere in quran, God
says ( not word by word) that:
we made among you (two) courtesy and mercy ( maoaddatan wa rahma- in Arabic).
So obviously there is no Love in the level of " Romeo & Jullietee" here.
According to some philosophers who meditate to understand the essence of this univers ( wisdom-seekers, muslims
and non-muslims0, the Ultimate, absolute Love is the Love for the Creator, underwhich the other Loves(s),
if you will, lie under!..
wow love and marriage,like one of our brothers said "love is a big word and it is to be cherished as such.I love deeply and not many can keep up with my standards of love and marriage.meaning its an agreement between 2 and must always be respected as that. In this day and age that is so hard.I believe in true love and i know its out there some where , hahaaa so to my brothers and sisters , take care in this matter .for its not how many breaths you take in a moment but .....how many moments take your breath away. OK OK , maybe I'm to much of a fairytale way of thinking but i believe you relay should know each other and know that you have the same ways before marriage.
Brothers & sisters Assalamu Alaikum!!
In my point of view,Love is a beautiful experience which should emerge after marriage.That's the period it should be well matured and maintained...Other than that is definitely a disaster not only here but also in the hereafter....
Well anything is possible, some probably can be married without love.
But personally I would not do it. I feel a marriage should be full of love. Love is so special that 2 people who share the same love will be strong in all. I dont think it is healthy to be in a loveless marriage. what is the point? If you are in a loveless marriage then I dont think you will ever be truly happy.
Imagine if you are in a marriage, and you have children..how will the children feel if you love eachother? and how would they feel if you did not love eachother?
I think 2 people that love eachother, and have a marriage with children, will have thier children to grow into great people. and the other the children may have problems with thier own life as adults.
I have seen it many many times.
so i feel, if you do not love, you should not marry.
many times some marry for all the wrong reasons..
i feel marriage should be based on love and only love....