Salam galz and guys,
..we are all muslim!...we are belong to different parts of the world....i guess not all the grls are really a real one and neither not all the boys are....pupils....this is a best channel to be get intreact among us by all means...but there are always uncertainities...anywayz...i personally hope we can defeat all sort of tht jazz not the way like our (Muslim)politican do but the way to true Muslim and with true sprit.So lets starts Now.
What u people how to be a best muslim such that we made a balance with our social prespective and as well as our religeous boundries? what u ppls think.
In Pakistan there is a new wave of feminism freedom...what u pplz think how much freedom do grls should have and do boys enjoyed.
hope to see all of u soon.
a good approach to put together all the muslims
i wish i declare two sentences for the matter i want to discuss but the words are so much tht every word have its own meaning.
enuff dose for all? ;)
I wanted to know why you started charging a membership fee? And you are promising more contacts with this fee, however;where are these contacts coming from? There were not many profile matches that I received before the membership fee.
Have a blessed day
hello I would like to thank all of those who responded to my post a month or so ago. I have been very pleased and enlightened about many issues. I will be getting back to all soon I hope and I have made many friends already. You are a great bunch of people.
I would like to ask if someone could explain the emails about the poor widow who's husband was some general who had millions of dollars in some bank account at it is only my omnipitant self who can get out this money sitting in some bank account. I never knew so many poor african nations have so many millions of dollars in other bank accounts. I hope no one falls for this scam.
I also agree with others that drinking and smoking and body type need not be on any profile. thank you all again for your kindness.
In spite of polite request and warning by many people here (e.g zaina, rafi, zainy, amina, CaSisterZaharah and many others)for not making this site a matrimonial site, i am still getting mails from many of our brothers about frindship and long term relationship....and i am sure many of other females are getting that too.... CaSisterZaharah even removed her profile from here only because of the annoying mails she was getting from muslim brothers...and she had posted her request here in this message board....
If the stupid muslim fellows (male) cannt even understand the feeling of another muslima then i think we all should feel shame on being pseuso-muslims....here i am want quote the words of zaina again....
As a 'desi' (or homelander from the sub-continent) I feel it is my moral obligation to tell my brothers something they should know. It saddens me that many sisters have removed themselves from this board because brothers have not the sense and modesty to refrain from emailing them when they say they don't want any male contacts. I too have been pestered in this way, and 99% of the time, to my chagrin, the fellows are Desi. Any attempt to politely decline their invitation to dialogue is answered with scorn or greater persistence. This is totally unacceptable and reflects horribly on Pakistan, India, Bangladesh and other desi countries. Here is my advise.
Brothers, be careful who you email. The majority of sisters who come onto sites like this are generally practicing Muslimahs who have no wish to engage in Internet friendships with non-Mahram men. If you are wishing to find a spouse on the Net, then kindly seek a matrimonial site. If a sister declines your friendship, THEN LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!! I cannot stress this enough. Persistence in this regard is disgusting and pathetic. Those who continue to harrass and email a sister after being turned down will deserve any rude and curt response.
I didnt want to name those people here who mail me, but i think i should i let other muslima know about those people..i recenly got mails from ajmeer786 and anwarupla...beware of them..i think other muslima might also got the same people..
i request the authority of this site to remove the profiles these people, who use this site other then the purpose of islamic teachings..
kalo ngomongin bangsa tentunya semua orang pada males....sama saya juga .. pusing sebenarnya mikirin bangsa yang penug dengan ... "bangsat" ... reformasi hanya sebatas bendera belaka.. yang ada hanya korupsi yang merajalela.... kapan para penerusbangsa mau bertindak cepat menyelamatkan bangsa ini..... tidak cukupkah kerusakan yang terjadi di depan mata? .... seharusnya kita sebagai kaum muslim harus berani merubah keadaan ....
sangat memalukan bangsa yang dominan beragama Islam ternyata .... terlalu banyak pengikut Iblis.....
Asalaam wa alikum warahmatuallahi wa barakatahu...
Hi there.. just a thought can we have some way of showin that ppl who we make friends with here can be shown online... so we can Im them... I would be grateful for a response of some kind from the staff :)
I am writing in reference to the comment that this board should be used for suggestions on how you can make the site better.
Just recently I noticed that a "smoke?" and "drink?" section have been added to the profiles. First of all, there may be some disagreement on the smoking issue, but drinking is undoubtedly haram. Why would a Muslim profile asked you if you drank?
Second of all, I was very disappointed to find that "drink occasionally" seemed to be what the profiles are set to, so that without even knowing it my profile suddenly stated that I drink occasionally!
May I suggest removing at least the drinking question from the profiles - if someone wants others to know that they drink, they can tell them in the "about me" section.
Reply to khalilurrehman concerning tabligh:
As far as i know, according to islam tabligh/islah should start first from your ownself (nafs), when you complete your islah of yourself then islah to your family members and then your neighbour, then city then.....and so on and so forth.. the circle should increase ...so i think it will be the best way and will be most appreciated by Allah, if you go out from your home in your neighbourhood and find a muslim/non-muslim, who either dont pray or dont follow any laws of islam. Give him/her few mints, convey the message of Allah and Muhammad(s) to him/her. If only one person listen to you and bring Iman then it will be great. start from small thing and then go to big thing, like conveying tabligh to all world.....but you should have "Fiqar" to tabligh/islah all world all the time...And i am sure you will do your job in a small city, and ALLAH will convey your Fiqar to whole world...May Allah help us...
Now as per your knowledge , you can spread tabligh on internet via emails, chat, making website, and the best way is message board like this, which is accessible to all and anybody can ask question to you and you can answer here, so that everybody find benefite out of it...
salam, is anyone attending the upcoming isna convention in Washington, D.C. Labor Day weekend? if you would like to volunteer to get ur registration fee waived and a discount on ur hotel expenses email
May Allahs peace and blessing be upon my brothers and sisters, as well as Allah's guidance towards the unguided.
I shall not write alot yet I feel that I can write a book. A book dedicated to Allah in order to merely help guide truthfully those who are far from Allah's merciful path. I live for Islam so I want you to live for it as well, if you are not Muslim then I asure you that I won't pressure you to become one but rather I will try my best to abolish your ignorance as well as mine.
I am open for all in order to respond to all, no matter what race/nationality or subject-matter, I will try my hardest to discuss and learn with maximum open-mindedness and minimal bias.
Wa asalamo alaikoum wa rahmatu Allahi wa barakatu,
your sincere brother in Islam,
"Dan berpeganglah kamu semuanya kepada tali (agama) Allah, dan janganlah kamu bercerai-berai, dan ingatlah akan nimat Allah kepadamu ketika dahulu (masa Jahiliyah) bermusuh-musuhan, maka Allah mempersatukan hatimu, lalu menjadilah kamu karena nimat Allah orang yang bersaudara; dan kamu telah berada di tepi jurang neraka, lalu Allah menyelamatkan kamu daripadanya. Demikianlah Allah menerangkan ayat-ayat-Nya kepadamu, agar kamu mendapat petunjuk. (QS. 3:103)"
Salam All, I am a Pakistani girl, have been accepted for a masters in the US.I have heard that a lot of oil-rich kingdom give grants/scholarships to Muslim men and women.I need it badly and soon. Pls. if anyone has any advice how to go about it contact me email@example.com
These site is doing awonderful job ...only that it should have created achat room where people can chat
WE ARE ONE UMMAH,WE NEED TO BE UNITED ALWAYS ON THE BASIS OF BEING ONE UMMAH WHO HAVE THE SAME ENEMIES AND FRIENDS,HOW CAN WE ACHIEVE MUSLIM UNITY....WELL IF WE DO THE FOLLOWING,
1.DO NOT WEAR ACROSS(NECK TIE)ON YOUR NECK TIE..PLZ EXPLAIN THAT TO FELLOW MUSLIMS.
2.ALWAYS HAVE TASBIH IN YOUR HAND TO SHOW YOUR ISLAMIC PRIDE.
3.KEEP YOUR HAIR SHORT AND CLEAN.
4.WEAR AN ISLAMIC HAT(KOFI)WHEN EVER POSSIBLE.
5.GROW YOUR BEARD(2-3 INCHES LONG)IF YOU CAN.
6.WEAR ABA OVER YOUR JACKET WHENEVER YOU CAN ESPECIALLY WHEN GOING TO ISLAMIC EVENTS OR TO THE MOSQUE.
7.BE MODEST;NO SILK,NO GOLD,WEAR NICE,CLEAN AND INEXPENSIVE CLOTHING.
8.OUR WOMEN(LADIES)SHOULD WEAR LONG,LOOSE,NICE,CLEAN CLOTHING WITH HIJAB(HEAD COVER)JUST LIKE KHADIJAH AND FATIMAH(R.A)
9.DO NOT DO ANY UNISLAMIC DEEDS LIKE SMOOKING...IF DO PLZ NOT WHILE DRESSED IN KHAMIS OR ISLAMIC DRESSING.
THE BELIEVERS ARE BUT ASINGLE BROTHERHOOD.MAKE PEACE AND RECONCILATION BETWEEN YOUR(CONTENDING)BROTHERS AND FEAR GOD SO THAT YOU MAY RECEIVE MERCY (QURAN 49-10)
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