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Posted on Thu, Aug 01, 2002 19:22

Asalaam wa alikum warahmatuallahi wa barakatahu...

Hi there.. just a thought can we have some way of showin that ppl who we make friends with here can be shown online... so we can Im them... I would be grateful for a response of some kind from the staff :)
Thank u



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Posted on Thu, Aug 01, 2002 14:55

Assalamu Alaikum brothers and sisters,

I am writing in reference to the comment that this board should be used for suggestions on how you can make the site better.

Just recently I noticed that a "smoke?" and "drink?" section have been added to the profiles. First of all, there may be some disagreement on the smoking issue, but drinking is undoubtedly haram. Why would a Muslim profile asked you if you drank?

Second of all, I was very disappointed to find that "drink occasionally" seemed to be what the profiles are set to, so that without even knowing it my profile suddenly stated that I drink occasionally!

May I suggest removing at least the drinking question from the profiles - if someone wants others to know that they drink, they can tell them in the "about me" section.

Allahu Alim.

Walaikum Assalam WW

Tina Marie Subegdjo



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Posted on Thu, Aug 01, 2002 12:35

Reply to khalilurrehman concerning tabligh:
As far as i know, according to islam tabligh/islah should start first from your ownself (nafs), when you complete your islah of yourself then islah to your family members and then your neighbour, then city then.....and so on and so forth.. the circle should increase ...so i think it will be the best way and will be most appreciated by Allah, if you go out from your home in your neighbourhood and find a muslim/non-muslim, who either dont pray or dont follow any laws of islam. Give him/her few mints, convey the message of Allah and Muhammad(s) to him/her. If only one person listen to you and bring Iman then it will be great. start from small thing and then go to big thing, like conveying tabligh to all world.....but you should have "Fiqar" to tabligh/islah all world all the time...And i am sure you will do your job in a small city, and ALLAH will convey your Fiqar to whole world...May Allah help us...
Now as per your knowledge , you can spread tabligh on internet via emails, chat, making website, and the best way is message board like this, which is accessible to all and anybody can ask question to you and you can answer here, so that everybody find benefite out of it...
AllahHafiz
Rafi Ahmad



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Posted on Wed, Jul 31, 2002 16:56

How on internet tabligh can be spread to all over.
This can be utilise to spread the message,if nay one one have suggestion please let me know.I will be thankfull
khalilurrehman@hotmail.com



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Posted on Wed, Jul 31, 2002 12:34

No



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Posted on Tue, Jul 30, 2002 09:44

Do you know what happen in iran by ISLAM name ?



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Posted on Sun, Jul 28, 2002 19:16

salam, is anyone attending the upcoming isna convention in Washington, D.C. Labor Day weekend? if you would like to volunteer to get ur registration fee waived and a discount on ur hotel expenses email
dcisna2002@yahoo.com



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Posted on Sun, Jul 28, 2002 01:54

May Allahs peace and blessing be upon my brothers and sisters, as well as Allah's guidance towards the unguided.

Afterwards,

I shall not write alot yet I feel that I can write a book. A book dedicated to Allah in order to merely help guide truthfully those who are far from Allah's merciful path. I live for Islam so I want you to live for it as well, if you are not Muslim then I asure you that I won't pressure you to become one but rather I will try my best to abolish your ignorance as well as mine.

I am open for all in order to respond to all, no matter what race/nationality or subject-matter, I will try my hardest to discuss and learn with maximum open-mindedness and minimal bias.

Wa asalamo alaikoum wa rahmatu Allahi wa barakatu,
your sincere brother in Islam,
Usef.



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 23:20

"Dan berpeganglah kamu semuanya kepada tali (agama) Allah, dan janganlah kamu bercerai-berai, dan ingatlah akan nimat Allah kepadamu ketika dahulu (masa Jahiliyah) bermusuh-musuhan, maka Allah mempersatukan hatimu, lalu menjadilah kamu karena nimat Allah orang yang bersaudara; dan kamu telah berada di tepi jurang neraka, lalu Allah menyelamatkan kamu daripadanya. Demikianlah Allah menerangkan ayat-ayat-Nya kepadamu, agar kamu mendapat petunjuk. (QS. 3:103)"



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 22:22

Salam All, I am a Pakistani girl, have been accepted for a masters in the US.I have heard that a lot of oil-rich kingdom give grants/scholarships to Muslim men and women.I need it badly and soon. Pls. if anyone has any advice how to go about it contact me w4less@hotmail.com



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 16:06

These site is doing awonderful job ...only that it should have created achat room where people can chat

WE ARE ONE UMMAH,WE NEED TO BE UNITED ALWAYS ON THE BASIS OF BEING ONE UMMAH WHO HAVE THE SAME ENEMIES AND FRIENDS,HOW CAN WE ACHIEVE MUSLIM UNITY....WELL IF WE DO THE FOLLOWING,
1.DO NOT WEAR ACROSS(NECK TIE)ON YOUR NECK TIE..PLZ EXPLAIN THAT TO FELLOW MUSLIMS.
2.ALWAYS HAVE TASBIH IN YOUR HAND TO SHOW YOUR ISLAMIC PRIDE.
3.KEEP YOUR HAIR SHORT AND CLEAN.
4.WEAR AN ISLAMIC HAT(KOFI)WHEN EVER POSSIBLE.
5.GROW YOUR BEARD(2-3 INCHES LONG)IF YOU CAN.
6.WEAR ABA OVER YOUR JACKET WHENEVER YOU CAN ESPECIALLY WHEN GOING TO ISLAMIC EVENTS OR TO THE MOSQUE.
7.BE MODEST;NO SILK,NO GOLD,WEAR NICE,CLEAN AND INEXPENSIVE CLOTHING.
8.OUR WOMEN(LADIES)SHOULD WEAR LONG,LOOSE,NICE,CLEAN CLOTHING WITH HIJAB(HEAD COVER)JUST LIKE KHADIJAH AND FATIMAH(R.A)
9.DO NOT DO ANY UNISLAMIC DEEDS LIKE SMOOKING...IF DO PLZ NOT WHILE DRESSED IN KHAMIS OR ISLAMIC DRESSING.

THE BELIEVERS ARE BUT ASINGLE BROTHERHOOD.MAKE PEACE AND RECONCILATION BETWEEN YOUR(CONTENDING)BROTHERS AND FEAR GOD SO THAT YOU MAY RECEIVE MERCY (QURAN 49-10)
YOUR COMMENTS AND SUGGESTION TO mbuush@hotmail.com OR yakafii@yahoo.com



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 15:41

WE ARE ONE UMMAH,WE NEED TO BE UNITED ALWAYS ON THE BASIS OF BEING ONE UMMAH WHO HAVE THE SAME ENEMIES AND FRIENDS,HOW CAN WE ACHIEVE MUSLIM UNITY....WELL IF WE DO THE FOLLOWING,
1.DO NOT WEAR ACROSS(NECK TIE)ON YOUR NECK TIE..PLZ EXPLAIN THAT TO FELLOW MUSLIMS.
2.ALWAYS HAVE TASBIH IN YOUR HAND TO SHOW YOUR ISLAMIC PRIDE.
3.KEEP YOUR HAIR SHORT AND CLEAN.
4.WEAR AN ISLAMIC HAT(KOFI)WHEN EVER POSSIBLE.
5.GROW YOUR BEARD(2-3 INCHES LONG)IF YOU CAN.
6.WEAR ABA OVER YOUR JACKET WHENEVER YOU CAN ESPECIALLY WHEN GOING TO ISLAMIC EVENTS OR TO THE MOSQUE.
7.BE MODEST;NO SILK,NO GOLD,WEAR NICE,CLEAN AND INEXPENSIVE CLOTHING.
8.OUR WOMEN(LADIES)SHOULD WEAR LONG,LOOSE,NICE,CLEAN CLOTHING WITH HIJAB(HEAD COVER)JUST LIKE KHADIJAH AND FATIMAH(R.A)
9.DO NOT DO ANY UNISLAMIC DEEDS LIKE SMOOKING...IF DO PLZ NOT WHILE DRESSED IN KHAMIS OR ISLAMIC DRESSING.

THE BELIEVERS ARE BUT ASINGLE BROTHERHOOD.MAKE PEACE AND RECONCILATION BETWEEN YOUR(CONTENDING)BROTHERS AND FEAR GOD SO THAT YOU MAY RECEIVE MERCY (QURAN 49-10)
YOUR COMMENTS AND SUGGESTION TO mbuush@hotmail.com OR yakafii@yahoo.com



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 15:40

WE ARE ONE UMMAH,WE NEED TO BE UNITED ALWAYS ON THE BASIS OF BEING ONE UMMAH WHO HAVE THE SAME ENEMIES AND FRIENDS,HOW CAN WE ACHIEVE MUSLIM UNITY....WELL IF WE DO THE FOLLOWING,
1.DO NOT WEAR ACROSS(NECK TIE)ON YOUR NECK TIE..PLZ EXPLAIN THAT TO FELLOW MUSLIMS.
2.ALWAYS HAVE TASBIH IN YOUR HAND TO SHOW YOUR ISLAMIC PRIDE.
3.KEEP YOUR HAIR SHORT AND CLEAN.
4.WEAR AN ISLAMIC HAT(KOFI)WHEN EVER POSSIBLE.
5.GROW YOUR BEARD(2-3 INCHES LONG)IF YOU CAN.
6.WEAR ABA OVER YOUR JACKET WHENEVER YOU CAN ESPECIALLY WHEN GOING TO ISLAMIC EVENTS OR TO THE MOSQUE.
7.BE MODEST;NO SILK,NO GOLD,WEAR NICE,CLEAN AND INEXPENSIVE CLOTHING.
8.OUR WOMEN(LADIES)SHOULD WEAR LONG,LOOSE,NICE,CLEAN CLOTHING WITH HIJAB(HEAD COVER)JUST LIKE KHADIJAH AND FATIMAH(R.A)
9.DO NOT DO ANY UNISLAMIC DEEDS LIKE SMOOKING...IF DO PLZ NOT WHILE DRESSED IN KHAMIS OR ISLAMIC DRESSING.

THE BELIEVERS ARE BUT ASINGLE BROTHERHOOD.MAKE PEACE AND RECONCILATION BETWEEN YOUR(CONTENDING)BROTHERS AND FEAR GOD SO THAT YOU MAY RECEIVE MERCY (QURAN 49-10)
YOUR COMMENTS AND SUGGESTION TO mbuush@hotmail.com OR yakafii@yahoo.com



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 15:35

WE ARE ONE UMMAH,WE NEED TO BE UNITED ALWAYS ON THE BASIS OF BEING ONE UMMAH WHO HAVE THE SAME ENEMIES AND FRIENDS,HOW CAN WE ACHIEVE MUSLIM UNITY....WELL IF WE DO THE FOLLOWING,
1.DO NOT WEAR ACROSS(NECK TIE)ON YOUR NECK TIE..PLZ EXPLAIN THAT TO FELLOW MUSLIMS.
2.ALWAYS HAVE TASBIH IN YOUR HAND TO SHOW YOUR ISLAMIC PRIDE.
3.KEEP YOUR HAIR SHORT AND CLEAN.
4.WEAR AN ISLAMIC HAT(KOFI)WHEN EVER POSSIBLE.
5.GROW YOUR BEARD(2-3 INCHES LONG)IF YOU CAN.
6.WEAR ABA OVER YOUR JACKET WHENEVER YOU CAN ESPECIALLY WHEN GOING TO ISLAMIC EVENTS OR TO THE MOSQUE.
7.BE MODEST;NO SILK,NO GOLD,WEAR NICE,CLEAN AND INEXPENSIVE CLOTHING.
8.OUR WOMEN(LADIES)SHOULD WEAR LONG,LOOSE,NICE,CLEAN CLOTHING WITH HIJAB(HEAD COVER)JUST LIKE KHADIJAH AND FATIMAH(R.A)
9.DO NOT DO ANY UNISLAMIC DEEDS LIKE SMOOKING...IF DO PLZ NOT WHILE DRESSED IN KHAMIS OR ISLAMIC DRESSING.

THE BELIEVERS ARE BUT ASINGLE BROTHERHOOD.MAKE PEACE AND RECONCILATION BETWEEN YOUR(CONTENDING)BROTHERS AND FEAR GOD SO THAT YOU MAY RECEIVE MERCY (QURAN 49-10)
YOUR COMMENTS AND SUGGESTION TO mbuush@hotmail.com OR yakafii@yahoo.com



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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2002 05:46

As a 'desi' (or homelander from the sub-continent) I feel it is my moral obligation to tell my brothers something they should know. It saddens me that many sisters have removed themselves from this board because brothers have not the sense and modesty to refrain from emailing them when they say they don't want any male contacts. I too have been pestered in this way, and 99% of the time, to my chagrin, the fellows are Desi. Any attempt to politely decline their invitation to dialogue is answered with scorn or greater persistence. This is totally unacceptable and reflects horribly on Pakistan, India, Bangladesh and other desi countries. Here is my advise.

Brothers, be careful who you email. The majority of sisters who come onto sites like this are generally practicing Muslimahs who have no wish to engage in Internet friendships with non-Mahram men. If you are wishing to find a spouse on the Net, then kindly seek a matrimonial site. If a sister declines your friendship, THEN LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!! I cannot stress this enough. Persistence in this regard is disgusting and pathetic. Those who continue to harrass and email a sister after being turned down will deserve any rude and curt response.

May Allah give us all hidayat.
Ma'salaama.



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Posted on Fri, Jul 26, 2002 11:59

Dear Brother/Sister,

Assalamu Alaikum

May I introduce to you the Mercy Universal, a global charity organisation, engaged in humanitarian work for the poor, sick and needy in a number of countries including Afghanistan, Bangladesh, India, Pakistan and Somalia, in general and Kashmir in particular. It has its headquarters in London (UK) and sub-offices in USA and the Gulf.

Mercy Universal (MU) provides relief to victims of natural and man-made calamities, helps in eradicating poverty by providing education and health care, and by sponsoring schemes of income generation.

Mercy Universal (MU) is the only international humanitarian organisation, which is in a position to provide proper relief on a regular basis to the needy in Kashmir. It has up to date information about the extent of need, heightened by decade-long war-like situation, and has relief network in operation.


I would request you that while sending your contribution by cheque or postal order, please write your name and address on the back of your cheque so that Mercy Universal can send your receipt.

Yours sincerely,

Dr Ayyub Thakur



Mercy Universal
Po Box 81 GreenFord UB6 9YW(UK)
Tel:- 02085755999
Fax:- 02085753666
Email:- info@mercyuniversal.com
Web:- www.mercyuniversal.com



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Posted on Thu, Jul 25, 2002 20:03

asslam alaicum,Rahmattulla,
It is reply for zainy..
yes it is puzzling for me that how a girl from US of A can have such good thinking...yes this site should not serve as a matrimonial...this site is suppose to be used to communicate for the purpose of islam and its teachings...thats why it is a muslimfriends.com and not spouseship.com..but if anybody have someother problem in their personal life , he/she can ask help from us....we are brother and sisters and according to Muhammad(s) , if one brother feel pain , then every muslim around the world should feel the pain in same way...

here i need a favour...i need audio files of quran in arbic and its translation in urdu...if anybody let me know, any website from where i can download it , then i will be grateful to him/her..

AllahHafiz
Rafi Ahmad



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Posted on Wed, Jul 24, 2002 16:41

Asslam alaicum, Rahmattulla,
This is just an effort to answer the question of Miss. Nida .."what is islam anyway?" ISLAM (I Surrender before the Law of Allah and Mohammad(s))..although the law is not made by Mohammad(s)..but he(s) had shown a complete way of life , as per the wish of Allah. So islam is not just a relgion but a complete way of life. From, when you getup in the morining, to when you eat, go to work, deal with people/family, go to toilet, when you do business, when you take care of your family/children/elders/wife/others.....to when you sleep...Islam is an authority to tell you what to do and how to do. And belive me in my this long/short life, i find myself happy only when i obey these rules, and do things as Allah Asked me to do. And i alwasy succeded in life if i follow these ways....Remember always..whats the meaning of Kalma-shhadat..i.e "La-yelha ha illah, muhammadur rasool-llulah"...their is no God but Allah..i.e the only individual who has power to do all things is no-one but Allah...and the only way of success is the way of Muhammad(s)."...hope this helps..if you have some query contact me at rafi@me.iitb.ac.in

Allah Hafiz
Rafi Ahmad



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Posted on Wed, Jul 24, 2002 02:46

Salaam,

Welcome you to become a member at MF.COM. Once you become a member, you will get more convenience. At first, you can search more profiles by 10-20 times than guests, and you can search them by your specific demands. Furthermore, you can more directly and conveniently communicate among muslim members and guests. In addition, we will offer more services for members before long.

Allah bless you!
staff



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Posted on Tue, Jul 23, 2002 18:43

May the peace and blessings of Almighty Allah.. bestow upon us all...
Hi there.. im real pleased to be a memeber and im all for learning so please email me i love receivin emails. insha allah i'll do my best to reply them

Wa salaam for now
Naadia :)



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