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Posted on Fri, Mar 18, 2005 21:02

Does this site make sence according to shariah? Are muslims allowed to have intermingling of genders? Can we have something like love before marriage or without marriage?



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Posted on Wed, Dec 31, 1969 16:00

SALAM
I THINK THERE IS VERY CLEAR SHARIA'S CONCEPT IN THIS REGARD THAT MALE AND FEMALE CAN NOT MEET EACH OTHER ONLY BY THE WAY THAT SHARIA ALLOWED. AND THE CONCEPT OF FRIEND SHIP BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE IS COMPREHENSIVELY AGAINST THE DEMAND OF SHARIA. THEN HOW SOMEONE ASKS ABOUT THE PERMISSION IN THIS REGARD.SHARIA CLEARLY ORDERED FEMALE TO TAKE HIJAB. IT MEANS MENS NOT ALLOWED EVEN TO SEE WOMEN WITHOUT HIJAB.THE CONCEPT OF FRIENDSHIP IS RIGHT OPPOSE THE WHOLE SHARIA.BEING A MUSLIM WE SHOULD OBEY ORDERS GIVEN TO US AND ITS THE SPIRIT OF ISLAM.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 31, 1969 16:00

SALAM
I THINK THERE IS VERY CLEAR SHARIA'S CONCEPT IN THIS REGARD THAT MALE AND FEMALE CAN NOT MEET EACH OTHER ONLY BY THE WAY THAT SHARIA ALLOWED. AND THE CONCEPT OF FRIEND SHIP BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE IS COMPREHENSIVELY AGAINST THE DEMAND OF SHARIA. THEN HOW SOMEONE ASKS ABOUT THE PERMISSION IN THIS REGARD.SHARIA CLEARLY ORDERED FEMALE TO TAKE HIJAB. IT MEANS MENS NOT ALLOWED EVEN TO SEE WOMEN WITHOUT HIJAB.THE CONCEPT OF FRIENDSHIP IS RIGHT OPPOSE THE WHOLE SHARIA.BEING A MUSLIM WE SHOULD OBEY ORDERS GIVEN TO US AND ITS THE SPIRIT OF ISLAM.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 07, 2008 09:19

KOMALBABU wrote: SHARIA CLEARLY ORDERED FEMALE TO TAKE HIJAB. IT MEANS MENS NOT ALLOWED EVEN TO SEE WOMEN WITHOUT HIJAB...

THE IRONY !...what about the picture you displayed for your profile? Curious to know why you chose to display a blonde in a very low-cut outfit, superimposed in your photo?

Are we supposed to cover our eyes or your photo in order to read your inputs and comments?

You are so not helping the "MENS" on this site to follow Sharia ?!



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Posted on Mon, Aug 20, 2007 15:35

Hi Shawana,

No you dont need to wear Hijab inorder to visit Pakistan. But if you are travelling to rural area its better to wear local dress otherwise no you dont need to. But in order to mix and to be respected as some one really very special I would say wear local dress, women and men will welcome you like family member. U will Love it. U can buy dresses in local market easily. have anice trip



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Posted on Wed, Feb 28, 2007 17:58

Hijab - how do you define Hijab?

Is it veil, burquah, niqab, Khimar, shilog, hijab?

If you read Quran, it only describe to be modest in dress code, both male and female alike. For female dress code, Quran goes little deeper, woman to have a cloak flailing from should unto bosom, known as khimar. Now expert translation can vary.

Now, modesty can be transcend in various culture in various ways. But, no where it says there can be no communication among genders? What is really forbidden is: a luster of satan overwhelm your mind. So, do not cross the border line.



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Posted on Wed, Jan 10, 2007 10:44

sure, by all means..........after all........what goes on in bed is very private , no matter what. God does not interfere. I should know !



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Posted on Thu, Nov 02, 2006 22:41

Fora start..... in view of THE SPIRIT OF ISLAM and ....MENS NOT ALLOWED EVEN TO SEE WOMEN WITHOUT HIJAB.

perhaps if would help if the displayed photo is guarded.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 19, 2006 08:39

very honestly 'NO'.Thr,s no justification for doig all this!but thr,re so many otherfields in which male/female work together within their limitations. if we use this website for a constuctive, possitive n healthy purpose it would become purposeful.This is a forum provided to us,now it is up to the user ,using it possitivly OR negativly ,sole diescrition of user.Now u can share ur ideas,literature,any healthy topic i.e how to serve mankind, how to develop unity among muslim community n so many other constructive objectives which could boost n motivate all those who want to devote for the noble cause,espcialy among muslims where requirement for such innitiative require at large scale



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Posted on Sat, Sep 30, 2006 02:17

way illustrative exp (paris hilton) .speak about the rich arabs in saudi in som arabic rich contry,they dont even think that at the end we will not bring nothing



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Posted on Sat, Sep 09, 2006 10:18

It was not wrong, because followers of 'Book' could be married and if the spouse converted to Islam, it must have been good example/practice of Him which is a big credit to both spouses.



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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 13:21

hello every body.

My first post on this site.

as for the questiuon of intermingling.It depends.for example in my uni we have girls and boys mingling with each other and thats alright.

social situations is ok.

But say within a household then there are some lines not be crossed



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Posted on Fri, Jun 02, 2006 12:37

Hi,
I am a Pakistani woman and I can tell you there is absolutely no need for you to wear a Hijab. You will find all types of people in Pakistani, the real conservative ones and the more modern ones. Yes I would recommend you find out about what your friend's family is like. MAybe they would appreciate it if you simple just cover your hair...with a scarf. It also depends where he lives? Different places in Pakistan have different dress codes. But in the end of the day you should do what your heart says. ONe thing's for sure the less skin you show the better as that will only attract unwanted-attention. Hope you ahve a lovely time in Pakistan it is one of the most fascinating coutries in the world! :)



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Posted on Wed, May 31, 2006 22:11

muslim are not allowed to intermingling except by marriage or mharam relationship. but in islam it is so easy to get married, it can be perform FIXED-TIME MARRIAGE or PERMANENT MARRIAGE...

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Posted on Sun, May 28, 2006 05:17

hello I am American I have a friend in Pakistan we have become friend's through the net we have only seen eachother ,his family know's were net friend's I was invited to go there to his brother's wedding a few month's ago and because of personal problem's here i could not attend we want to meet in person my question is should i wear Hijab when i get to pakistan?or can i dress as i do here in America no i am not muslim and to me i like all people i hate no one shawna

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Posted on Mon, May 08, 2006 17:10

...and what about those of us who no longer truly have a gender, those of us who walk between the worlds of men and women?

  


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Posted on Mon, May 01, 2006 02:03

hi iam ahmed from pakistan .
any wana friendship with me i like simple female.. so any female friendship with me plz reply me in my email



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Posted on Wed, Apr 05, 2006 07:23

Muslims are allowed to have intermingling however there is distinct border between intermingling and getting close to zina. To give an example, you might make a friend from a sister or brother but it should be up to some point. Such as greeting each other when they see in some place, talk for a while about wellness of each other and if anything else concerned about their lives such as issues about family members or some issues about each other's job etc.

What not allowed in Islam is dating or so called random playing before marriage. Going out somewhere, doing something together alone.

What allowed is if both brother's and sister's family are aware of their relation, and they (as families) have already met and talked their relationship. If that brother and sister are trying to know each other before marriage, it is allowed. But again there should be someone accompanying them. As brother Abd_mumin stated, if one man and one woman are in the same room, then third will shaitan.

These are what all muslim brothers and sisters are expected to do unfortunately we're seeing differences in actions and thoughts.
May Allah give us the strength to stand against shaitan and forgive us.



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Posted on Wed, Mar 29, 2006 17:56

HOW SOMEONE ASKS ABOUT THE ACT WHICH IS CLEARLY OPPOSED THE SHARIA.THE SHARIA ORDERED WOMEN TO TAKE HIJAB.IT MEANS MEN DOES NOT ALLOWED EVEN TO SEE WOMEN WITHOUT HIJAB. AND THE FRIENDSHIP IS THE NAME OF MEETINGS,GATHERING AND MUCH OTHER WITH EACH OTHER, SO HOW SHARIA ALLOWES AGAINST THE PRINCIPLE OF QURAN.I M SURE THAT BEING A MUSLIM WE SHOULD ONLY OBEY THE ORDER INSTEDOF DISCUSS ON IT LOGICLY.DISCUSSION WITHOUT OBLIGATION WAS THE WAY OF BANI ISRAEL,SO WE SHOULD AVOID IT.



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Posted on Sun, Mar 19, 2006 06:30

assalamulaikum

no comments first



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