please if your not amuslim and you dont think you became amuslim dont let me spend my time for distabing my self and if you wont learn more abut muslim you can ask me whatever you wont because iam muslim student thank you
you see there are muslim brothers that are serous about there deen and looking for sister like you that have been played by these so-called-muslims...I take my deen very serious and don't play with no ones feeling...
Abdul Aziz talib
how are you sister? All men are not same and same goes for women. I think it would be better for you to contact your wali or local Imam and they will be able to guide you. I hope and pray that you will find someone who is able to balance Deen & Dunya, a good Husband, a good friend and teacher.
It's sad but that is the way things are, I would think brothers would avoid tampering with righteous sisters. The best thing sis is your association with married sisters and being introduced properly within the guidelines of islam.
salam to all how contributed in this fragile matter, and thanks to all of you as wel to actually think and come up with some ideas,,,,,,you have put all the good muslims guys in defencive position, dear sisters and who had a bad experience the deen can not be judge by the personal acts, yes there are some people call thme selfs as a good muslim but just having a muslim name and born in the muslim family does not make you a good muslim person, islam teaches you the way of life, and that is what islam is about, islam is not the deen for muslims only , it is a deen for the whole universe who ever follows it, having said that it is the matter of looking in the right direction i am very sure you will find the person you are looking for you just have to have a faith and pray to allah that he will do the good for you in this world and as wel as after this temporary life.We muslims are proud to be muslim and we should act like a muslim as is has stated in quran , and we muslims have a great respect for women. If you find a person have no respect for you as a women then he cant be a good muslim.
First of all accept my heartiest congratulations to enter in Islam. I live in Aachen. You can contact me. i often visit colone.
please try to search osmanische herberge on internet. It is a very good place to learn Islam and the good thing is , it is close to colone.
if you want to contact me. search umarsherwani on internet. if you need more information, please send me message on this group. I hope you know the best search wesite.goo..
what is a good muslim??
i'm still new in Islam
and i know still too few,
no one teached me to pray,
my arabic is still bad
but i already read Quran, but i know this is not enought.
hmm sometimes i have feeling, Muslim know every word in Quran but didn't understand it and not praktice it.
Muslims in here doesn't care much about me, i doesn't come from islamic family, i know i'm bad muslim and the only thing i can do is trying the best and listen to my heart.
maybe i rarly reach 5 times pray at day, but there are much another importan thing, like prakticing Islam, helping people, trying best.
my only friend who show me Islam will leave me soon, and then i don't know, the only thing who give me a few hope, are the Turkeys here, who ever drinking alkohol, and i know i can do it better.
Hello Brothers and sisters i have to disagree with what missey has to say we can not judge all men by what a few have done that is wrong isnt that happening in the world we live in that a few bad make all good look bad as well dont ever lose faith sister if you have not come across Mr right yet then Allah swt has planned this for you we do not know what is planned for us and when it will happening just keep beleving sister and hopefully you will be blessed.
Sorry because my english is not so good but I want to give you my idea about your question:
In this world there goog muslim very good muslim,the problem is now of the way of life the work you have,your economic possibility.You have more time off the house and a little time ine the house.There some cities like madrid in spain where i live whitch dont have a place of muslim where we can practise the religion.I do it in my house but not the not in the righ time...........
Those muslim men you met are only muslim or hypocrite but not yet the true believer(mukminin). The believer do most what been said in HOLY QURAN. Their(mukminin)'s heart always remembrance of ALLAH. Their's faces shining of NUR(Light).the way they behave like a saint and they have no fear, worry, sad and envy and as well as other bad characters.If you wanna see these believers(mukmin),put your interest less on this worldly material and more interest on the DIVINE HIMSELF and you will see the true believer of ALLAH(EXALTED IS HE).
missey write: I am new in the deen. I have really been turned off by the muslim men. I have found that the muslim men are the same as the non muslim men. The muslim men I have met were players, liars, didn't make all their prayers, wanted to get in my pants as fast as non muslim did, and didn't read the Quran and the list could go on. I know marriage is half my deen, but if muslim men are like this I rather be single. My questions is Where are the real muslim men and where can I find them.
Muslim nowaday they don't border to know islam very well. It's look like islam is only heritage religion.
Actually, we must strong in Tauhid - adden knowledge to know Allah & others knowledge such as ilm Feq, Hadith & al-quran of coz, etc.
When our knowledge strong, we know which is rite or wrong. Which we should do or don't.
In other words, Allah give us iman & islam as a guide. Use to monitor our life.