The best way to make a new and better love is to follow what Allah says, or the only love we will get is the love of shaiyatin.
"O prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to drew their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies. That will be better..."
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thats a bonus. We all shd think who are we in this world to always receive the best good deals in life? Life is up and down. We also did not know which part of our sins that we have done to receive all this & which part of our good deeds to receive bonus from ALLAH.
Maybe, u don't know whats your mistake as all of us do mistakes because we are humans. A person who is broken hearted in love with his/her partner is maybe due to that person did not take good care of his/her mother/parents and thats a sin and maybe due to that Allah send negativity to their lives, maybe. Allah the AL Knowing knows better.
Maybe this is an enlightenment for you to be a better muslim.
Every bad things happen, there is always HIKMAH in it and when that HIKMAH comes.. its a wake up call for everyone of us to shukur to ALLAH and when u have tasted that HIKMAH, that is a good thing that ALLAH is saving us from doing wrong doings.
Just like surah Al Baqarah- Allah said,"I will never give a test beyond humans capability. It get every good that it earns, it get every ill that it earns."
What i see is that you might have a problem but if you really sit down and think about the source/root of the problem.. it may help you- like what i said, maybe she not worth for you or you not worth for her.
Time will heals all wounds especially if u pray and zikir ALLAH, insyallah there will be better things happening out there for you.. sometimes you might not know what GIFT ALLAH will gives u unexpectedly in your future.
Blindfaith, when you wrote this "Love is Garbage! Doesn't exist.Its ppl being selfish,else nothing as such exist in real life" - one thing i can tell you that this is wat the devil/satan/Iblis been waiting for and they love when you write.
My advise to you is Don't give up in life even millions of obstables are to happen infront of u, just remember satan/iblis/devil did not give up to disturb all of us, d children of adam.
Maybe before we start hitting the person's sense, we should give him a chance to explain y he said so. This is because he might not be in the correct state of mind when expressing himself due to maybe disappoinment or broken hearted?
Blind faith, what is your definition of love and why did you say so?
Out of conclusion, maybe i could say that you are disappointed with someone whom u love so much and you didnt get the best out of the person, maybe.
Maybe u have high or even expectations on the person but that person didnt meet up with your expectations, maybe.
I really don't know whats your definition on what you have expressed but then again love can be in a lot of factor which is
Love from ALLAH
Love from Malaikat
Love from Rasul
Love from Nabi/Prophet
Love from Mother
Love from Father
Love from Grandparents
Love from Relatives
Love from Siblings
Love from Friends
Love from Ur Other Half- (Wife/Husband/GF/BF)
Love from Children
Love from ur neighbours
One of my point in laying this out is LOVE can come from anywhere in the world, from any side any areas... Subhanallah
When couple or family that doesnt understand their situation etc, that's where compromise comes in and when theres no room for compromise.. thats where it lead to seperation.
Every love, theres always seperation which can be death or maybe 2 person in love cant compromise.
This is a materialistic world where u can have good and bad people around you. As much as all of us trying to do good deeds for the hereafter, the first is to respect love- if we don't respect love, then how do we respect and fear of ALLAH coz Allah love is a TRUE LOVE.. never ending eternity.
Maybe what you are going thru have hurt u alot but be shukur thank ALLAH that it happens because HE knows better what HE'S doing. Maybe that person is not worth for you. Remember, ALLAH gives you what you need and HE the AL KNOWING and if u get what you want,
SALAM well u r right 99.9% but there are some ppl who never gona understand about LOVE coz to understand LOVE u have to be in LOVE ( i think 1000 times b4 i even start talking about love ) coz its a topic what leads u to live or death its an eveil and an angle at the same time depend on ALLAH's will i m glad to see that there are still some ppl who believe on true LOVE MAY ALLAH LEAD TO U RIGHT PATH SALAM TO ALL
Honest awnser its a relase of chemechals stimulated by someone were attracted to thats why its easy to fall in love with good looking people...but when you get to know somone and become attracted to the you can achive the same results... so...this falling in love buisnes is your bodies way of trying to get you to ...u know (hence we lower our gayzes)so any ways the rush we get from this endophines or feel good chemicals is addictive making us want to see and b with that person as much as possible (like a drug) bu then u get use to the feeling the feeling dies and you move on to the next more realistic phasein the relationship...u know when you start noticing al the things you DONT like about the persone? yah well fortunatly if you do it the islamic way you get all the crap out of the way in the biginning and your love will grow becomming more reliable than the love of a persone you were initially attracted too. so any ways thats why we fall in love and thats also why islam has certain rules to protect us from ourselfs.oh and one more thing true love is nothing more than balance compromize and sacrifice and a little affction and common interests only incorrages that. If allah blesses someone with a person who is willing to do those things with them they better not ake it for granted...becouse true love is hard to find.
God gave us something called a heart you cant just say love does not exist because pratically the whole world gets in love with somebody. Allah has choosen someone for all of us so dont go around say there is nothing.
Love is like magic
And it always will be.
For love still remains
Life's sweet mystery!!
Love works in ways
That are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in life
That love cannot change!!
Love can transform
The most commonplace
Into beauty and splendor
And sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,
Understanding and kind,
For it sees with its heart
And not with its mind!!
Love is the answer
That everyone seeks...
Love is the language,
That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,
It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,
Is life's sweet mystery!!
I dont want to comment on this article.But when I saw the name of topic as "Love is Garbage" and the 2nd post of 'desert' as "shame on you" ,really i was laughing for abt 10minutes ,the way he posted and the way she replied
do we believe in the Qadr of Allah (predistenation of Allah) what ever Allah wills we accept this and dont say could of ,should of, would of, jump up and down ,have a fit, pull our hair out, say silly things like love is garbage and get angry, cause rest assured thats all a person gets is red in the face and angry. It's just a test. Allah says the belivers say INNA LIL LAHE WA INNA ILLA EHE RAJEE UN ( EVERTHING BELONGS TO ALLAH AND RETURNS TO ALLAH) Allah say's those who remember him and say this are the ones to receive his mercy and blessings. its just a test forget the rest do your best inshallah Allah will send you what you need!! not what you want! your brother in Islam P.S Allah got something for you brother just say the dua and wear your Iman in your heart not in your hand it's a reason for this holla at me (get in touch)
Get to know more people brother! In that way you will be able to understand people's character. Perhaps, in the past, you have had bad experiences. But, trust me, you'll get over it soon, if only you are willing to let yourself knowing other people. You will be surprised that you would find better and better people. I'm telling you based on my personal experience. I'm extremely happy with what I have now and with who I'm with!
Hey 000999 believe that Allah has destined one for u an if it His will u will fall in love again ameen. Pray and ask Allah for that special someone bcuz He loven His servants ask of Him,so ask of your Lord. Make dua an supplicate to Him, once i was in love with this hindu girl and she broke my heart, but through the mercy of Allah i meet the most gorgeous muslim girl i have ever seen and hope and pray InshaAllah i marry her this year...Ameen So worry not jus pray and ask Allah to send you the one He has destined for you when the time is right. Insha Allah...Ameen
You may got hurt because of love. Trust me, it will pass and give it some time. Meet with people, go out more and work hard. Try to forget all unhappiness. I really understand how you feel that why you said that. I am in the same situation like you. I still wondering should I believe in love anymore.