At this time on-line chatting has improved and there are some successful stories. In fact, two guys I know are now married to that online friend. But, we need to do much more in order to better help Muslim girls/guys find a match. What we have right now is not enough.
Currently, girls/guys, find a match through family, friends and the very few Muslim events (concerts, weddings etc.) that we have. Or for the last hope, go to a Muslim country, and marry a girl that you know nothing about. Or, take an American girl (Italian,french,Spanish, Irish,Chinese, whatever) and change her religion and hope that she/he learns and can continue your tradition. We have Muslim girls, who are in there mid to late twenties, thirties, and can not find that sole mate or forget sole mate, a one leg/one eye, half brian guy, that is a clean hearted individual and that will love her for the rest of her life. These girls, are from good families, they don't go to clubs until 5 am, meet twenty guys per night. They go to school, work, and back to home. The fun thing they do is go shopping. That's it. They hope and wait to find someone so that they too can start there lives. Alright enough with the sad story. What we need to do is start to have more young (or old :):) ) Muslim gatherings. FUN single's gatherings. Also, we need to have a better selection of web sites, for single muslims to meet. Free site, no monthly payments. At least for the girls. The guys could get a second or third job and pay the monthly fee.:). Personally I think. no member should pay, the site should funds it self through the companies who will post adds on that site, in which it will have millions and millions of viewers. Like the sites that are out and running right now for Russian singles, Greeks, Israeli singles, etc...
If not, I' II do it my self. Give me 6-9 months. I am working on couple other projects that are not finished yet.
To be continued, your friend, your little/older brother, your financial advisor. This is one of the projects that I am working on, Free Financial advice for Muslim.
hi annie-its sad to know what u went thro'. well, whatever the case maybe, u never know a person until u meet the person and sometimes u mite not all of him/her even after metting....i guess thats luck....and if u find someone true online...thats love ! ...all the best !!
I like the idea hotguy, especially the part that we girls do not have to pay. hehhe. i do agree with you that there are some cases out there who got married through online relationship. but then again, there are a lot of phonies out there as well. I had experienced it. Known a guy for 5 years, he came down to visit the family, gave me the ring but FORGOT to share with me one important info...married with 2 kids. so, you know... i may have been blinded with love, so they call it.... my advice is just to be careful. but ur idea of having a social gathering in a group..would really be good...to meet other muslim brothers n sisters and who knows, by Allah's will, we may find the right one...get the web going mister...im ALL in for u!!! :)