Your commitment only to the LORD Who created you from the beginning to now you are growing up. Living in this world, is not for wasting your time but to seek HIS Please and Pardon. We are not staying here forever in this earth, therefore find a way of the true happiness for the hereafter.
These advise are good for you and me too as reminded in the future if we still breathing peacefully.
Here other story!
One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud. Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said, & quot; Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine. The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right. There were whole pieces where there, were missing. The people stared -- how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought? The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. & quot; You must be joking, he said. Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears. But the old man, said & quot; yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared. Sometimes I have given a piece of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of they heart to me. These are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is? The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a pi...
As Rubina [above] says, you need perseverence. I'll add, too, that if you find online an opposite gender who shares most of your values, that's a good beginning for mutual exchange of e-mail over many weeks and months. Don't be too shy, after some proper length of time, to close your notes with the word, "fondly", and moving to "affectionately". Words of affection can build true affection - in the heart of the receiver, and the sender also. And, if/when the two meet and find less than perfection in the other, the affection exchanged in the past just may be the catalyst to solidify the relationship, since it was founded on shared values.
In that regard the long-distance relationship is superior to a face-to-face introduction at the outset, in that each person's first impression upon meeting will be coloured by the day's hormone level, and NOT by values shared over time.
Ok, There was once a girl who thought it would be fun to send random e-mails to random addresses - blank. She sent one, and felt so embarrassed about it that she didn't send any more. The man she'd sent the blank e-mail to wrote back.. he was soon to become the love of her life.
On looking back, it seems like an extraordinarily short time before he told her he was falling for her. The chemistry was tangible in the lengthy daily e-mails they exchanged. Before they knew it, they were deeply in love. It didn't seem possible, however, that they'd ever meet, let alone be together forever. You see, he lived in Albany, and she in Singapore - as far away as it is possible for two people to be on earth. And that wasn't all.. she was 16, and he was 22, and her parents would never let her date, much less marry by her own choice, even when she was older.
But they did make it. He travelled across the world and stayed for a week every year in Singapore, and she would tell her parents she was staying with friends, and they would live those few precious days in delerious joy.
Time went by.. he graduated with a post grad degree and found a job, she went to college, and graduated.. for 7 years they kept in touch, calling each other up every day, e-mailing even more frequently. He introduced her to his parents, and everything was almost perfect.. her parents didn't know yet, and were sure to be very hurt and very angry if she told them.
She chose her love for him over her desire to never hurt her parents. She told them. The period of turbulence that followed was intense and shattering, but he stood by her, and she found the strength to bear it.
It's always the darkest before dawn. He married her on the seventh anniversary of their meeting, and they lived happily ever after.