Bismillah
Salaams

Do we keep the ideals and the old fashion romance alive, or do we have the idea of every man/wman for his or her self?

Bismillah

Salaams
Good comements..but someone has to lead sometimes in the tango or otherwise feet are gonna get stepped on
Oh as for "real men that follow the sharria" point me in that direction..because its like finding jade in your back yard, really really really rare

Shahobaz.
Balance is good if its the balance that ALLAH (SWT) has intended.

Compromise often goes without saying. Seems like you always wanna win...remember that it takes two to tango and in order to tango pleasantly you have to make room for the other ..
this is where compromise comes in..

Tooni

hei hei,
hvordan g?r med deg?

i'm for balance,but...not for compromise

Agent Amira!

That a brillaint question in this day and age we find ourselves!

ALLAH(SWT) has created man to protect, honour and provide for his counterpart.

I can understand that today both parties have to work because of the cost of living, etc. But in the same ligth I would expect men to respect women for doing that. When in fact the very opposit happens...they feel intimidated that perhaps women get better jobs or earn more money than them and I have found that in most cases these men eventually become abusive to their wives.

They have no way of dealing with their insecurities etc and these frustrations build up and they eventually lash it out on their wives....


So were are the REAL men who will abide by the laws of SHARIAH!

Do they intend to protect honour and provide or rape women of the respect and status that ALLAH (SWT) has given them!

Tooni