Bismillah

Salaams
How do you deal with the stresses of in laws..or how would you. The butting in, the differences, and their ideals?

try n listen n learn..sometimes we may think that wot theysay is wrong but there are times when wot the say is right..so be patient n respect

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim,

Allah test whom He wishes and how He wishes.
2.153] O you who believe! seek assistance through patience and prayer; surely Allah is with the patient.

2.286] Allah does not impose upon any soul a duty but to the extent of its ability;

I belive that if a man or woman marry into a family then there inlaws should be treated as if they were thier parents. and also anyone in the family should treat them as if they are family.
i feel that if ones life partner is being treated poorly it is up to one to put a stop to it.
i would never let anyone treat my future life partner in any bad way, just as i hope he would never let anyone treat me poorly.
a marriage effects the entire family, so i suggest everyone treat everyone respectfully and lovingly. and it will be that much happier..

in laws have no right to treat there doughter in law how they want to and husband should suport his wife if her in law treat her bad.thats husbands job and he should do it if he dont then he is not a good husband and he makes allah and his prophit angry which we as a muslim dont like.

in laws think that they have rights to the daughter in laws and can treat them which ever way they like it is very rare that you will find a decent mother in law etc. but the sons should speak up when the his wife is being treated badly y is that they dont it is thier duty as the husbands to maintain a balance esp if they all live in the same house

walaikum asalaam

hmm what yu have said is true but hey why is it that looking after the in-laws is always emphasised on the daughter in law what about the son- in- law and his behaviour towards his in-laws.
Above all in islam there are no blessings in marriage whilst the parents are unhappy wether they are the in-laws or the parents:o)

Assalamualaikum,

Treat In-Laws as your parents.

Islam emphasises respect of Elders.

Barring a minority of biased In Laws most of them would get along well.

But then there are biased Out Laws as well,ha ha.

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