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Posted on Thu, Sep 19, 2002 18:07

Assalamualaikum..

Dear brothers and sisters:

I´m a 25 year-old venezuelan man willing strongly to embrace Islam.
I was born in a catholic family. At 16 I gave up my faith because I realized that Jesus was just a profit and can´t be God. I was lost since then untill I find Islam. I´ve realized that Allah the merciful is the only reason why I´m here.
I need you to advice me and tell me how to begin right, because I dont want to make any mistakes nor offend God or any of you brothers and sisters because my ignorance about Islam.
I culdn´t be a paying member of this website not because I don´t want it much, but I always write in my workplace. I don´t own a computer of myself.
Thank you all
May Allah bless you!
Allah be praid!



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Posted on Wed, Sep 18, 2002 12:39

السلام عليكم ورحمه الله وبركاته

Isalm is peace Islam is the true Islam is the fact Islam is Islam



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Posted on Wed, Sep 18, 2002 04:38

Asalaam Malikum,

One of the fundamental questions muslim women in the west face is what is their role in the family stratum where their academic and intelectull ability matches that of their spouse or exceeds that of their spouse.The opposing paradox is a men having spent significant time in the west goes east and gets married and the spouse join's him in the west where circumstances,culture and society has impacted you.

What are the guidlines expections for each in Islam and take into considerations you are required to respect the legislative requirements of law that might be in conflict with the islamic code.

Case in point a women who may appear to have violated the islamic code?

Recently i came across a muslim sister who was severaly beaten by her jealous husband who claimed that she had violated the islamic code by meeting her boss for a buisness lunch without his permission or knowledge.

Is this justification or is there a remedy under Islam that you may want to comment please feel free to do so.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 16, 2002 15:05

Asslamo Alaykum

Sister,

Plz assume tht when I wrote this I have no mean to affront u. U wrote there that muslim men do like women without covering there head n u also belive in being progressive minded. Fine sister, plz tell me; will u do for Allah(all prises for him) or men(plural)? IF my memory doesnot serves me ill, I heard from somebody tht a woman is allowed to be or act like a progressived but tht is only with the wish and consent of her husband and only infront of him and not to show everyone.

Further, u said tht muslim women are denied job if dressed up Islamic way, one big question is why muslim women should go for job, now if somebody argue tht we have lot more expenses and my husband does not earn enough; fine tht can be a case but again I want all those my sister to look the lives of Sahabas(Allah be please with them), how they spent it? Plz consider tht world is not the place to gain but rather it is the place to spent and day of judgement is to gain.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 09, 2002 12:38

as Mr. Nisardeen told" "every thing will be improved by allah when is suited" In my openion , nowadays most of the mulsim men like woman without covering their head and even the jobs are denied to the muslim women if they dress up islamically. so if women are becoming a little bit socialized in order to protect the community, allah will forgive and rather based on their religion islam itself they should be progressive minded. The most important thing soul prification. if mulsim men are religious by all means , women will also become automatically religious. so everything depends on men. if the muslim community is becoming degenerated, the basic reason is men's dishonesty and coz of that muslim women are out of their way allah will forgive.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 05, 2002 14:27

As a new believer I always enjoy ayats from the Quran to decorate the site.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 05, 2002 09:41

Selamun Aleykum
I invite all my brothers and sisters to write web sites address about islam and muslims.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 04, 2002 14:05

I felt we need to have a box where each members can have a personal profile page, so that brothers can exchange ideals without necessarily using hotamil or yahoo address, such page we can individually post in our pictures.

Ma salam

Moshood



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Posted on Wed, Sep 04, 2002 04:54

Salaam,

All brothers and sisters in islam, I think most of you meet this confusion relating to drinking status. Actually, as long as you fill out the item "about me" and seriously choose your option, there should not be problem with it. Contrarily, it will show "drinking occasionally".

Allah bless you!

staff



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Posted on Tue, Sep 03, 2002 07:09

Just recently I am told my friend and I also read it on this news board that while entering details there are some problems.
One of the major problem is that when you submit your profile you might have selected "Don't Drink" option but it automatically turns into "Drink Occasionaly"; so dear brother and sister beware of that and keep checking of your profile regularly to avoid such cases.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 03, 2002 06:58

I invite all my brothers and sisters to discuss about islam and related issues and comparitive religions. My web site for this is www.discuss-islam.com

May Allah reward you for your efforts

Allah Hafiz



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Posted on Tue, Sep 03, 2002 06:43

to all in islam

abdullaha



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Posted on Tue, Sep 03, 2002 06:36

my profile was changed and modified I don't know how the infomations came which I did not submitted



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Posted on Tue, Sep 03, 2002 06:35

my profile was changed and modified I don't know how the infomations came which I did not submitted



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Posted on Mon, Sep 02, 2002 15:53

Asslam wa aliakum

I seek some healty and permanent relations and to make friends people who are of open mind and good toughts

ALI



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Posted on Sun, Aug 25, 2002 15:51

My main role in writing, is always focused on how people think and in favor of what is going on in thier lives. I try constantly to write about general topics that most indivisuals come across therefore they can relate to. I thought of this idea. I gathered a couple of sheets of paper and wrote on the top of the booklet:-

"I am asking different people to state questions relating to life or society, and i am going to indirectly state answers generally online and possibly in a book I will write".

( people who stated questions are both male and female , ages range from 14 and up ).

i already started but i would like to add more people

so if you have any questions email me back asap

carmella



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Posted on Wed, Aug 21, 2002 21:00

Salamu alaikum !
Malik al pharraz, comming from Cameroon in Afica
May ALLAH BLESS U



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Posted on Wed, Aug 21, 2002 14:48

Asalamo alaikoum,

I have read a message, read an article, listened to lectures here and there that proclaim one point - that is strictly forbidding the existance of friendships between males and females in Islam. My only question is WHY, simply meaning where is the FULL EVIDENCE and PROOF of such concepts from the Quran, Sunnah, and the related Fiqh. I do not mean to be offensive to anyone but rather I am ingnorant of the logical reasoning as well as the Islamic textual proof of such concepts of friendships, so please if you have the logic and the evidence to show me, then please do not hesitate to do so.

May Allah bless you for your good intentions,
wa asalamo alaikoum wa rahmatu Allahi wa barakatu,
your brother in Islam,
Usef.



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Posted on Wed, Aug 21, 2002 10:51

Assalaamu Alaikkum Warahmethullahi Waberekatuhu.

Any thing which will be improved by the Allah when it suetable and prefered by him.I read all above the suggestions and ideas and I would like to inform you that keeping relationship and exchanging information with girls and ladies shuld be fully eliminated.becouse Profet Mohomed has adviced us not to keep (even looking at them) any relationship with ajnabies (women who are allowed to married )and is fully haram.Making frendship only with male party is more than enagh to do your sevice and Allah will help you to ipmrove your sevice ,if it will be so .One of my main suggustion is when you preparing and introdusing your services,Westeren culture should not be fallowed. We have Holey Quoraan and Hadees so that no need to fallow western enemeis who are tring to vanish Islam.Instead of fallowing them we must advice to the muslim not go behind the enemies but take quoraan and hadees as your leader. I have seen some of the above had been used words ideas which introduced by the Western enemies.Some of you have been used the word "helo". There is no any word called helo both in quraan and hadees.While we are fogetting those kind of things we should fallow and advice to the other muslims ,live muslims as muslims.

Your service will actualy make good results for the muslim nation when more members are gathered and contributed to your severce. It is the responsibility of you , other male members and I ,to intoduce and explain about this.
Finally I would like to say that that I am a Sri Lanken and studing in the University of Kelaniya fallowing a HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGEMENT degree programme.
The above my idias are written in the university computer lab while number of harams (fithna) happenning around me by non muslmis.

wassalaam
NIZAR DEEN



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Posted on Wed, Aug 21, 2002 10:48

Assalaamu Alaikkum Warahmethullahi Waberekatuhu.

Any thing which will be improved by the Allah when it suetable and prefered by him.I read all above the suggestions and ideas and I would like to inform you that keeping relationship and exchanging information with girls and ladies shuld be fully eliminated.becouse Profet Mohomed has adviced us not to keep (even looking at them) any relationship with ajnabies (women who are allowed to married )and is fully haram.Making frendship only with male party is more than enagh to do your sevice and Allah will help you to ipmrove your sevice ,if it will be so .One of my main suggustion is when you preparing and introdusing your services,Westeren culture should not be fallowed. We have Holey Quoraan and Hadees so that no need to fallow western enemeis who are tring to vanish Islam.Instead of fallowing them we must advice to the muslim not go behind the enemies but take quoraan and hadees as your leader. I have seen some of the above had been used words ideas which introduced by the Western enemies.Some of you have been used the word "helo". There is no any word called helo both in quraan and hadees.While we are fogetting those kind of things we should fallow and advice to the other muslims ,live muslims as muslims.

Your service will actualy make good results for the muslim nation when more members are gathered and contributed to your severce. It is the responsibility of you , other male members and I ,to intoduce and explain about this.
Finally I would like to say that that I am a Sri Lanken and studing in the University of Kelaniya fallowing a HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGEMENT degree programme.
The above my idias are written in the university computer lab while number of harams (fithna) happenning around me by non muslmis.

wassalaam
NIZAR DEEN



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