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Posted on Thu, Mar 10, 2005 09:58

have a friend who works in an office and there is this guy who works in another department in the same office.He glances at her in a specific way whenever he comes across her but his attitdue towards other co workers is casual.She thinks that he is flirting with her.He looks at her with squinty eyes as if he is studying her but there is also a smile on his face .She is sure that he is flirting but in a superficial way .Any input on this is appreciated coz I think my friend has an infatuation on him but at the same time she dosent wanna cross the boundaries and that guy is just studying her in order to see how far she can go....
.What should she be doing to avoid all this.Does anyone have a Duaa in mind so she can meditate on .All input is appreciated



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Posted on Thu, Aug 04, 2005 01:40

Does your friend wear hijab - as muslims a woman is told her protection is her home, this is her covering and protection. When she is out of the home - her hijab is her covering and protection. This allows others to distinguish us from others and signifies to them that our Muslim sistas are pure and honourable!



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Posted on Tue, Mar 29, 2005 03:56

Simple Dua is Surah Naas



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Posted on Mon, Mar 28, 2005 23:49

Salaam
It takes 2 to tango.
And premarital tango is not allowed.
Friendship is... so there's nothing wrong in meeting someone from the opposite sex to speak to provided the conversation is respectable and no unislamic proposals are made. Just plain FRIENSDHIP.

Woman do not 'cause haram and cannot be blamed for a mans actions. Each and everybody is responsible for their own soul.. so dont look at who to point blame at if you feel guilty for having done something wrong ...


Tooni



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Posted on Fri, Mar 18, 2005 22:13

online dating is haram, your intentions when you came on line was lust so you already have committed adultery, and so have the brother this is the reason why the hijab is so important -in the religion of allah so the women will not make the brother commit adultery with his intentions.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 18, 2005 22:12

online dating is haram, your intentions when you came on line was lust so you already have committed adultery, and so have the brother this is the reason why the hijab is so important -in the religion of allah so the women will not make the brother commit adultery with his intentions.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 11, 2005 01:12

Asalaam hu alaikum,
1) Establish if he has a relationship.
Perhaps his shy to speak about his feelings.
2) If he does have a relationship.
Tell him you do not appreciate the squint looks.. what does he mean by that.
3) IF he doesn't and it appears she likes him.
Ask if ok if u guys go out for coffee. Im not saying indulge in haraam. Meet in a public place and just chat to understand an learn about the next person.

Tooni



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