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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 04:09

I think a man and a woman have to know very well each other before the marriage



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Posted on Thu, Jul 03, 2008 10:21

The problem really is the east and then the west. islam started and flourished in east and then spread and still spreading. But non-muslims who are not really human, they make islam in wrong meaning.People want to live in this world with their own will and want to avail every opportunity even by breaking the limits of religions.What happened is that the media had been involved in it and negative marketing had been adopted in East to introduce bad things of non-muslims here. With the passage of time, islam became week in east and getting weaker.Those non-muslims have adopted the rules of Islam but not the actual islam.We have accepted Islam but lef the rules of Islam thats why muslims are down and down and we are looking for our life partners on internet.I m one you and believe in one thing that wedding is in hand of Allah.If anyone likes my comments,



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Posted on Sun, May 11, 2008 10:26

A bit off topic. I have noticed the so called "practicing muslim men" are no different than the ones who know nothing about the deen, because just like these men who have no knowledge of islam, they tend to be narrow minded and judgemental.No matter how good a woman is islamically if they find something as tiny as a zit on you they will turn you down for it. No joke, its absolutely revolting.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 18, 2008 13:11

You are right



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Posted on Sun, Jan 28, 2007 14:01

walekum salam



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Posted on Fri, Feb 24, 2006 11:44

its a sin to put your pic on the internet



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Posted on Fri, Feb 24, 2006 11:42

dont use the internet to meet people to marry



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Posted on Tue, Jan 31, 2006 17:05

>>>i totally agree with missey i am not muslim but had a muslim boyfriend who lied to me for 4 months telling me that he had no other girlfriend or didn't like anyone, he is really religious and loves allah alot but he is not following what he should be doing,now he told me he had a girl who he has been with for 10 years now,i think that every guy even if he seems perfect..is a lier and player....I have nothing against muslims...:)>>

islam is wonderful and if applied correctly can change your life. but you have to know something, just like any other man (christian, jew, satanist, etc.) a muslim man can lie, cheat, or steal. it's prohibited of course but it is not a reflection of the faith. just like you wouldn't subject a man of any other faith to being the poster boy for his faith, don't expect all muslim men to embody everything in the faith. just approach it how you would any other man. use your instincts...determine whether he's a good man or not.



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Posted on Wed, Jan 18, 2006 08:42

Salam oualaykoum Navis

Mashallah...It's a good way you've just embrace brother..
If you need any help i will do my best to help you inch allah..I am living in france but also speak german..
Ich bin noch nicht fliessen aber das geht..
Just leave a message and i will inch allah response..
take care
may allah help you)
Brahim



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Posted on Mon, Jan 16, 2006 02:29

Selamu alejkum

Dear sisters and brothers, it is true that there are muslims who act as non believers and we should be very careful when choosing our husban/wife. Even in these web site I see lots of muslim girls and boys as well, that have registered in this site just to flirt. And the problem is that they have not taken Islam seriously



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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 03:09

hey..assalamulaikum
hey..assalamulaikum



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Posted on Thu, Oct 20, 2005 08:34

we can't judge that all muslims r good.. actually it's not depends on that person..but it's more 2 his/her belief.. of course they all pray, believe in Allah but the most important thing is how they prove it... r they obey Allah rules.. iman is the answer... iman can increase & decrease.. we need iman 2 improve & upgrade our taqwa.... sometimes peole r very good in making a nonsense talk rather than making it alive... well, it depends on the situation..
we can't judge that all muslims r good.. actually it's not depends on that person..but it's more 2 his/her belief.. of course they all pray, believe in Allah but the most important thing is how they prove it... r they obey Allah rules.. iman is the answer... iman can increase & decrease.. we need iman 2 improve & upgrade our taqwa.... sometimes peole r very good in making a nonsense talk rather than making it alive... well, it depends on the situation..



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Posted on Fri, Oct 07, 2005 02:17

A real Muslim man would tell you not to be impatient and to continue educating yourself on how and where to find a (real)muslim man. First obey Allah alone..read Quran as much as u can. Work with sisters, a wali and emams whos actions remind you of the good discribed in Quran! Being single lifestyle destroys many of us. Get married by anymeans so long as its hallal.



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Posted on Fri, Oct 07, 2005 02:13

i agree with maq213. while men are chasing the money that most females need us to have befor marriage. think about it most young men dont have much money security. so while most muslim women and men are waiting too long....there is illegal sexual acts happening so much so that it becomes a vice along with other bad habits. Get married by any means so long as its hallal.



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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 11:38

Well I am sorry to hear about you bad experience. I just want to say that there are bad and good people in everyrace. You cannot generalize that muslim men are bad just based on few experiences with certain individuals.
Well you just have to be careful on who you date and open your heart to. Next time take it slow and think with your head more than your heart.

salam



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 00:32

Assalamu alaikum.
Dont talk to the men on here. Just talk to the women when it comes to these issues. Now I am a man so dont talk to me about it but I know how tragic the human situation is and you can find bad people on both sides of the fence (male and female). Just keep struggling...God (Allah) mentions that he will try us and this may be your trial for now. I have had my trials in life and will continue to have them as will everyone. You will find the right one as long as you have a wali looking out for you. Make sure he is a responsible married man with a family already who can interact through his wife with you and dont look at all men like this as everyone is different. Wasalam.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2005 21:32

agree with u alley



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Posted on Fri, Sep 23, 2005 20:44

asalam aleykum,
messey, u hav to to have in mind that in evry religion that we have the taqi(straigth) n the munaafiq(hypocrite) so my sister you fall into the wrong hand and according to my believes this might be a test your going throught on what ground ur choosing you partner i.e is it that he is bearing a muslim name or you choose by his imaan. ther hundred and one young muslim out ther who r looking n really want to get married to new convert becouse if one marries a new convert then he get more reward than a bornified believer, so ma sister keep on searching and ALLAH will help find the right one.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 22, 2005 07:08

Hi how are you girl I'm going to let you know somethig, you know I think the same thing about muslim girls the only diferense is that muslim girls are only looking for MONEY and this is the reason why you guys only find stupid guys, you only care about a rich person and don't care if he is going to be good for you as lons as he has money love is not important to you girls.
This is my point of view and I know I'm right just look at the profiles and you'll seeeeeeeeee.
take care and be cooooool.
Salam allah aleikum.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 17, 2005 08:40


latina4u write:
i totally agree with missey i am not muslim but had a muslim boyfriend who lied to me for 4 months telling me that he had no other girlfriend or didn't like anyone, he is really religious and loves allah alot but he is not following what he should be doing,now he told me he had a girl who he has been with for 10 years now,i think that every guy even if he seems perfect..is a lier and player....I have nothing against muslims...:)

  


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