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Posted on Tue, May 09, 2006 12:40

I think finding love is the most difficult
thing to do. Becaues we can find some someone we click with, but that is not love. love is understanding each
other mentally.
so people action is not love got that good.:) ok people what is love
i just wanna see what others think of love. what is the meaning of love to you all i just wanna know .
salam



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Posted on Tue, Mar 24, 2009 06:24

Quoting aley:

hummm, wel i think love comes within, and to love some1 you have to cover extra milage and it goes both ways, sometime you take a simple crush as love, you have to know the person to love them , because love is attached with personality and not with person.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 08, 2005 15:40

Asalamu Alaykum sister. I too have struggled to understand what it love and only recently understood that it cannot be explained other than to say that it is a mercy from God.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 07, 2005 23:48

Assalamu Alaikkum,

Excatly u are right mohammed



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Posted on Tue, Dec 06, 2005 11:11

Assalam o Alaikum

I like your thinking about love. I want to make friendship with you. I Neyaz Alam Ashrafi and doing job in Software Company in Delhi (India).

I hope you reply me
Thanks and regards
Neyaz



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Posted on Fri, Dec 02, 2005 07:00

Aasalaam aalaikum
we can not explain the words in terms of just words.love to me means a special feeling and attraction towards some one.This my view,i don
t know about others.



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Posted on Sat, Oct 08, 2005 14:49

Aley i agree with you all the way about it being personality related.

I was in love with sum1 i recently gave up, only as i have waited for her for 2yrs so we could both advance together in Dein and it didnt happen, she wants time, which i dont have as i'm at a point where i was last year and by sticking it out with her i nearly destroyed myself and NO1 is worth Jahanam!

With this gal i used to always find her Exciting, we used to chat on the phone on average around 2-3hours a day (sometimes 6-10hours a day) and not get bored and that was for the entire period we were together not just a honey moon period business. We never had 1 awkward silence although sometimes we both sit silent, and just knowing that the other person was on the other side made it feel GOOD. She had the flu, so i drove from 25miles to get her lemsip (i live in cov, she lives in Birmingham) at 3am in the morning.
I wanted to have my kids with her, wanted to spend every moment of our lives together, and the thought of me and her not being was like a BLACK patch and was unbearable!!!
She was christian and i am Muslim, Her bro is my mate (BAAD i know) her cousin bro was my BEST mate) Also baad i know hehe) but we got through it all. and Alhamdulillah she reverted last year, and he did like 1week l8r as i was giving dawah to both of them and every1 else that i come across.

but Love is perfection in your eyes, although you see flaws, they are flaws which are SERIOUSLY overshadowed by the feelings you have, the person hurts you, and it makes you like them more, and a SAD FACT is that FILTHY saying "treat em mean and keep em keen" its TRUE unfortunatly when the other person has feelings for you, it works, not that i tried it, i had it done to me by her, but i'm not sure if she knew, but thats love

Now i'm different, i Love Allah And islam, partners can die and will go when they decide, but with dein, it goes when you want it to, and the day will never come when you want Allah and Allah dont want you, so this is a love in which you call the shots, all the way.
So Islam is better for me then her, no pain, just Strength in mind.

(Sorry its soo long, but you ASKED FOR IT hehe)



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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 17:49

hummm, wel i think love comes within, and to love some1 you have to cover extra milage and it goes both ways, sometime you take a simple crush as love, you have to know the person to love them , because love is attached with personality and not with person.



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Posted on Sun, Aug 28, 2005 03:22

Asalam-o-Alikum,

Well you are partially right. In my personal view every relationship starts with something. i.e. not always love . It might be something else. You cannot Love someone intentionally. Just start a relationship with someone may be it turns to Love later when you know the other person well.

Allah reveals the secret of Love to every one (Ameen)
-Umar



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