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Posted on Fri, Oct 14, 2005 03:33

Salam sisters and brothers!!!

Do you believe in love at first sight? and how?



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Posted on Sat, Jan 11, 2014 23:39

love at first sight or should I walk by again?



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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2012 07:43

Sallaams to all.
Then explain this, why do we fall in love with a newborn baby at first sight?
we fall in love with a kitten, at first sight.
therefore, love at first sight exists, and is real.
however, does love at first sight = successful partnership? that is the real question




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Posted on Tue, May 12, 2009 23:19

HELLO AYSHA ASSALAMU ALAIKUM
CAN YOU INTRODUSE ME WITH FULL PROFILE .
I AM HABEEBULLAH, LIVING IN INDIA, KERALA STATE , AGED 29

Iwish to have an islamic life



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Posted on Wed, Sep 20, 2006 05:20

Feeling attractive to someone the first time you see him/her is possible. And this attraction maybe grow and maybe not.
it grows when you find in the person what impress you like good manners...



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Posted on Fri, Sep 15, 2006 12:43

lust at first sight maybe, love, well thats a really hard one?

what is love? a need, desire for companionship and more...

that feeling or is it indigestion who knows...

who cares....obviously most of the people on this forum..sorry guys/gals no offence...everyone to their own....misconceptions.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2006 21:51

Love at first site could be a chemical reaction.
From the book, The English Patient, when all atoms of two individuals jump in one direction, thus making two individuals attracted to one another. I don't have the exact quote,



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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 14:49

APPARENTLY SOUL7 U NEVER BEEN IN LOVE.NO ONE CAN SAY WHAT CAN HAPPEN BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE . LOVE IS DIFFERENT FOR EVER ONE. THERE IS DIFFERENT DEGREES AND FORMS OF LOVE AND EXPRESSION. IT A VERY COMPLICATED AND DEEP SUBJECT. YES I KNOW PEOPLE IN THERE ELDERLY YRS WHO ONLY KNEW EACH OTHER 2 DAYS THEY WERE MARRIED 75 YEARS . EXPLAIN THAT IMAGE THAT!!

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Posted on Fri, Aug 11, 2006 04:50

I don't know.........I suppose you can have love at first site, but the older that love gets, the deeper it gets, its like it grows.......so I spose it just gets bigger........but seriously, I don't know



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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 11:28

Salamu Alaikum,

I think 'Love at first site' is basically attraction to another person, either sex. This attraction could be physical or moral. It's a guenuine admiration for beauty that creates the feeling of belonguing. True Love is completely different.

Allahu Yaalam.



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Posted on Sun, Jun 11, 2006 10:00

Well, considering most of the Muslim women I've met are totally covered, the site and the sight are the same, dark cloth and a a veil. This is probably why so many Western women can attract a mate, not to say it is lust, but like many species, the female in this case tries to attract the male. In nature it is the opposite. The male does the dancing to attract. In my case, I need a bag over my head....so she cannot see how ugly I am? (lol)

  


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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 22:45

Walaikum Assalam Laila.
I am Riyasat Ali from india.

According to me .Love at first site is possible if u find some one who is perfect as your imagination.



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Posted on Sun, May 21, 2006 06:52

yeah sure
i also beleive that love can happen at first sight

am here very new in this room
i wana amprove my friendship network
i request to all of u that join to me plz



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Posted on Mon, Apr 24, 2006 20:22

Well, to some people love at first sight is a preferred way to get to know someone. But " beauty is in the eye of the beholder" .....Internal beauty is still the most important....



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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 08:21

hi friend how r u

visit my group plz



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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 10:40

laila_K write:
Salam sisters and brothers!!!

Do you believe in love at first sight? and how?


Sure I believe in love at first sight. Why not if you like somebody. But that's not all. It's like when you see a nice desert and from the visual apperance it looks delicous and tasty, but then when you try that desert yourself, your opinions then might vary. Ohh it was too sweet, not enough fruits, not enough cake, not enough topings, etc etc. Or the mircale might happen, and you might finally say it was a perfect desert for me. I like to keep it.
You folks get my point right ?

So the bottom line is, You might like the desert, or you might not. Either or.



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Posted on Sat, Mar 11, 2006 01:07

I do, believe.
cause it happens to some poeple
and it's out there



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Posted on Sun, Mar 05, 2006 00:52

i respact ur answer and ur idea about love from friest sight. yes we attct from friest look but we cnat call it love cuz love is realy biger than just look

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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 13:09

SALAM ALAIKUM,
How different are you.i really agree with your oppinion with the fact that u can have a feeling inside u or wish a lady is ur when u sight the person at first just as i am feeling know when i sighted u.But the best thing one could do is not to let his emotions run over him and take his/her time and seek for Allah's guidance and if it was the best for him then Allah will make it so.i will love to know you better and how alot differnt u are.
Ma SALAM
Nasirudeen.



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Posted on Sun, Feb 26, 2006 14:52

Salaam All, Love, war & peace talks sense, and i agree that love at first sight is in fact lust at first sight, love is a bond of personalities and a heart cannot be content upon emotions but for a short while. If you run behind a first look then you are running after your sexual desires, simply put. The heart or mind does not follow a first look. And by the way, looks will take you towards the world of Iblis and they will eventually turn you into a follower of Iblis.
Living life as accordingly to the truth is not difficult, we allow it to become difficult and then embed in our minds and hearts that it is infact difficult. We each make our own worlds and live as we want to live. There is no power nor any strength but within Allah[swt]. Repent sincerely if need be and believe that change is not difficult and the power of our lord through sincere effort will be shown if we look for it with our hearts. Jazak'Allah Khairun, Ma'Salaam



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