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Sisters! i need your advise please!
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Posted on Tue, Dec 20, 2005 01:54

okay, so ive known this muslim boy for about 2 years and i like him alote!!!
He works in a corner store and i go there like everyday lol! I think, (think) he likes me becouse he got his uncle to start askin me if i liked him his uncle did say " what youve known wahleed for 2 yrs now right?" lol i thought how did he know that?????????? wahleed must of said somthing !!!!!!
He gives me family discount whenever i buy stuff from there:) he flirts and smiles he's very nice. He tells me i look perfect and have beautiful hair....and he keeps asking my age and i play around with him and tell him 30 lol
but this is where you come in sisters!!!
How do i let him know this is a serious thing without actualy telling him???????
please o please help....the problem is we are both shy :(

help sisters!!



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Posted on Wed, Jan 11, 2006 23:24

ur right that iis bad behavior :(....i apologize deeply ......i shall just be frineds with him for now...thank you for your kind words



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Posted on Wed, Jan 11, 2006 13:33

Salaam Desert beauty

Its true that ALLAH decides what is coming to happen..
As I read your story i take u like this guy, more right to say ur interested in the guy in a marrige kind of way.
spendind time in flirting and looking after him in store wouldnt do it, only lead to bad behavoiur/actions.
get to know who he is and talk to him..tell ur parents what u want and him too,if he has the same thoughts as you (marrying)...
PRAyer and ACtions go together..
Inshallah, i hobe you succeed. Inshallah Allah knows best...



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Posted on Tue, Jan 03, 2006 23:21

Salamun alaik Sister Jazira..

Don't be sad ok. Don't worry, i'm sure Allah has a perfect man just for you. The one who's right for you. Keep on praying and have patience. Insya'allah, your prince charming will come!... Smile!

Fee Amanillah,
Nour

  


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Posted on Tue, Jan 03, 2006 17:18

well.....**tears in real life**
alah has decided that he has a g/f..........**sobs**

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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 11:01

Assalamu alaykum My dearest Sister Jazira..

You are most welcome. Don't worry. Allah knows best for His beloved Creations. Insya'allah, i'll pray for you. Keep on smiling!

Fee amanillah,
Nour



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 04:39

thank you sister , ur so right aissha allah !
allah is the one to decied :)



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 04:35

Asalamu Alikum Dear sister,

Nour gave a very good advice. Take her advice. I hope you know this but before doing Solautul Istikhra you should know it?s rules. You can find some information on internet. If you still need my help please let me know.

We must ask for Allah?s will.
May Allah forgive me and bless you.Amen
Masalam
Umar Farooq



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Posted on Mon, Dec 26, 2005 04:48

Assalamu alaykum Dearest Sister,

I believe what you can do is to make supplication to Allah in your prayers. In addition, make the solatul isthikhara and ask for Allah guidance. Insya'allah , if he's the one for you and will make you feel complete, Allah will create ease for the both of you and the opportunity will come. Have faith in Allah for Allah knows best for His beloved creations. May Allah answer your prayers sister. Ameen.

Barakallahu Feeki,
Nour



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Posted on Fri, Dec 23, 2005 15:32

I have talked with both my mother and father........they tell me tht alah will decide



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Posted on Wed, Dec 21, 2005 02:40

Asalamu Alikum,

If you are sure about him and want to stay with him and he wants the same too.(If you have this feelings). I would say better to talk with your mom first.Insha'Allah it will help you.

May Allah forgive me and help you.Amen
FeamanAllah
Umar Farooq



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