All is writen in the fate but it does not mean that we just sit and wait to come what is written in our fate..We have to make efforts ..so u have to find ur soul mate..and not just sit and wait..but its better if it is done by ur parents if they are alive ...u can also do it but with in the limits of Islam..u must find ur soul mate in way permisible in islam..do not just sit and wait for your soul mate to come ..
Wish u all the best
as i understand whole life is an exam "imtahan" no matter u have someone by ur side or not In both cases its exam "imtahan" & u have to pass through it with faith, patiance, etc. & Allah knows whom what kind of examination to give..Allahu Alem
..Subhana Taala created us..
You reminded me a true story I heard it was in lebano; it was about a very old woman asked for divorce. When they asked her why, she said that she heard that the woman belong to the same husband in heavens. She thought she was patient to get better life later (hearafter). This husband was not the better life she was looking for. it is funny.
If I am not wrong it is optional for the woman to keep her husband or to leave him in heavens. Beside that the people are different. They have the best morals; no greed no pride no hate ..... Everyone lives in peace.
As for single ones, maybe they can meet other singles. don't forget that Adam and Eve met in heavens.
Allahumme sali ala seyidina Muhammad
[35.11] And Allah created you of dust, then of the life-germ, then He made you pairs; and no female bears, nor does she bring forth, except with His knowledge; and no one whose life is lengthened has his life lengthened, nor is aught diminished of one's life, but it is all in a book; surely this is easy to Allah
Most people get married but Allah tests whom he wills. Do you think marriage is all about sharing bed no there are lots of complications met in marriage. The woman becomes a trust for the man and the man becomes a trust for the woman. And Allah will surely test us on how we behave towards eachother. And if Allah doesnot give a partner He is alwise and All-knowing.
I think, everyone has a soul mate. Just think about the creation of our mother Howa(A.S). She had been created from the rib of Prophet Adam (A.S). This is possible that onc can not meet with his/her soul mate in this world. Allah(S.W.T) knows best for his creations.
Everyone of us can feel that unless he/she can not find the right one for him/herself . They is a gap in their life and the factor of sadness always be their on their minds and on their souls.
We are weak servant of Allah. We can only make Dua?s and leave the rest on Him.
May Allah bless you with the pious husband me forgive me.
How are you my dear sister? I hope you are doing fine, insya'allah.
Everything is written in Lauhul Mahfuz. Only Allah knows when is the best time to grant something to His creations. Of course, time frame will vary from different individuals to the other. This is because Allah knows best for each of His beloved creations.
We have to make an effort too in terms of meeting people (i don't mean dating), of course being a muslimah we must observe the guidelines and boundaries of socializing. Then, of course we have to make supplication to Allah after every prayers to bless us with the best husband for us here and in the hereafter. And in my opinion, seeking a pious husband should be the main priority instead of focusing on other physical attributes.You can also try performing the Solatul-Hajat if you are able. Insya'allah.
Maybe one way to meet people and keep yourself occupied would be getting involved in sincere voluntary, community work. However dear sister, even if you do not happen to meet Mr Right here, your sincere good deeds that you've done would insya'allah be rewarded by Allah.
Or you can always seek assistance from an Imam from your local community.
Don't worry my dearest Sister. Have faith in Allah and Rasullulah S.A.W. Insya'allah everything will work out fine for you and May you find peace and solace.
My sincere prayers for you..
May Allah answer your prayers and bless you with the best husband for you in terms of religious piety here and in the hereafter. Ameen.
May Allah forgive me for my errors and guide us all. Ameen.
So do you think we just have to wait till the right person come?
Why sometime some people have to wait to long and some people only wait for a short time.
Do you think we need to try to found out too not just wait.
What do you think the best way to get a right person/soulmate.
hi swastike... frankly i think that every human being has its own partner especially us... i beleive that all of us have our own partner that can share our happiness and sadness.. being together with someone that is created by Allah to us is a blessing thing in the world...Together we share all sort of feelings,knowing this world much better.. if not,we have to go through over this kind of journey alone.. isn't it quite boring to be alone for the whole journey.. well sometimes it depends on our destiny whether the time is right or not to find him/her... if u r made for her/him,don't be afraid coz insyaAllah u will be hers/him..all that u need to do is wait..until the right time come.. it seems that while we are going through our life someone that already made for us r looking,searching & also waiting us to be appear in his/her life...