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Posted on Sun, Nov 20, 2005 11:36

Salamu Alikum sister,

Few months ago, i read this Hadis of Prophet (SAW).What i rememberd at the moment is 'Woman is selected for four things,her welath,family,beautiy and Iman.Whoever will marry a woman without iman will be a looser.'May Allah forgive me if i am making any mistake in understanding or writing this Hadis.

Personally, i think Iman is the most important attribute of a woman, but if guys now a day also intrested in other attributes is also ok, unless they will not neglect the most important attribute.

We are living in a period of second ignorance. Less and less guys are aware of the importance of the value iman.

May Allah guide us.(Amen)

Barallah Fee Khair

Umar Farooq



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Posted on Fri, Nov 18, 2005 19:38

I always have one question in my mind about muslim guys. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said that woman will be liked by her wealth, beauty and family. But Prophet Muahmmad (PBUH) and his Companions selected their wives because of good characters and dignity rather than on those worldly standards which Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) mentioned above. But what i have observed that even very religious guys need a beautyfull wife, from a rich family and mostly people who are showing off. I wonder that what has happend to muslims even though Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is mentioning it in his saying still our muslim brothers are keep on doing it. But according to my understanding He himself or His companions does not show any such example.

I am just requesting to guys to stop acting like fools you have your deen open your eyes and see what is meant by this saying of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).

It is saving you from many wordly as well as after death problems.

Please think about it......... otherwise it will be late.