Looking for a WIFE-whats the Criteria? marriage Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Nov 27, 2005 at 07:01 AM

    I am seriously looking for a lady to be my wife.Why is it that there are MANY but none comes forward.There are GOOD women but are hesitant.This world is blessed with NICE women butthey are so shy.Allah has shon the way to GREAT women but they dont want to be a wife.
    I wonder what the women of today want.What criteria???
    Please get in touch with me if you think you can be a friend,a partner and a wife.
    Allah bless all of us in seeking happiness
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  • View author's info Posted on Dec 29, 2005 at 11:55 AM

    Asslamu alaykum..

    Well, Brother Hadi is right. Humility, Honesty and of course not forgetting sincere heart and religious piety are the most important criterias in a partner. Physical attributes are not so much important as they may fade over time. What's the use of abundance richness and a handsome face when the heart lacks sincerity and filled with so much egos?

    In my opinion, one of the keys to happiness lies with the choice of a pious husband whose heart is filled with love for Allah(Swt) and Rasullullah S.A.W. Wallahu alam bi sawab.

    May Allah grant us all with Pious Partners. Ameen.

    Barakallahu Feeki,
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 21, 2005 at 03:02 AM

    Pretty good advice, brother! There's a lot of truth in it.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 20, 2005 at 08:54 AM

    Asalamu Alikum,
    Yes Hadi you are right, but i think it also depends on age. You are talking about girls who are at the age of 17 to 30 years. Woman after 30 years of age looks for a reliable man that can provider her sense of security. Almost every woman has been effected in 20 th century by Feminism and that is why they have a long checklist of required attributes for a man. They called this man ?Mr.Right?.

    May Allah guide all of us to Sirate Mostaqeem .amen

    Umar Farooq
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 19, 2005 at 10:27 PM

    Nowadays, most women don't trust most men. They are independancy of doing better things than men. What they really look for a man is his characteristics of being humbly, honesty and can cheer them up most of the times because they women are weaker and hyper-sensitive in the heart but still strong with their will-mind.You can have any women in this world for you to get marry, but the first things to do is to understand them before you get started to like them. Do more communicate with them because they always feel bored with dumb men.Learn to Speak the languages of friendship and languages of love with them which they find most interesting in life than you talk about money and other topics..Learn!!!

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