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  • View author's info Posted on Dec 06, 2006 at 07:58 PM

    On a TV series there was a song taht said:
    " Love and Marriage..Love and Marriage,
    thay go a horse and carriage!"

    Well according to some Quranic verses
    there is no Absolute Love in marriage
    relations. Somewhere in quran, God
    says ( not word by word) that:

    we made among you (two) courtesy and mercy ( maoaddatan wa rahma- in Arabic).

    So obviously there is no Love in the level of " Romeo & Jullietee" here.

    According to some philosophers who meditate to understand the essence of this univers ( wisdom-seekers, muslims
    and non-muslims0, the Ultimate, absolute Love is the Love for the Creator, underwhich the other Loves(s),
    if you will, lie under!..

    Take care'll
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 28, 2006 at 06:38 PM

    Responsibility and liability comes next after the love and marriage. That what keeps one going when the going is tough.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 27, 2006 at 10:40 AM

    salam all of u
    if i were at this position i will first love then i will marriage to her this is good life wt i think.
  • View author's info Posted on May 07, 2006 at 09:46 PM

    wow love and marriage,like one of our brothers said "love is a big word and it is to be cherished as such.I love deeply and not many can keep up with my standards of love and marriage.meaning its an agreement between 2 and must always be respected as that. In this day and age that is so hard.I believe in true love and i know its out there some where , hahaaa so to my brothers and sisters , take care in this matter .for its not how many breaths you take in a moment but many moments take your breath away. OK OK , maybe I'm to much of a fairytale way of thinking but i believe you relay should know each other and know that you have the same ways before marriage.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 14, 2006 at 10:35 AM

    Brothers & sisters Assalamu Alaikum!!
    In my point of view,Love is a beautiful experience which should emerge after marriage.That's the period it should be well matured and maintained...Other than that is definitely a disaster not only here but also in the hereafter....
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 11:09 AM

    ok you may be right but how about that from where come all husband was love me and me too.but after 10 years we divorced.why.
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  • View author's info Posted on Mar 04, 2006 at 08:08 PM

    ohh why u need 2 marry some one u didnt love, yes u dont know him in start but u wil know him and if u love u cna marry but its not right 2 marry any one just for married
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 03, 2006 at 07:41 AM

    Well anything is possible, some probably can be married without love.
    But personally I would not do it. I feel a marriage should be full of love. Love is so special that 2 people who share the same love will be strong in all. I dont think it is healthy to be in a loveless marriage. what is the point? If you are in a loveless marriage then I dont think you will ever be truly happy.
    Imagine if you are in a marriage, and you have will the children feel if you love eachother? and how would they feel if you did not love eachother?
    I think 2 people that love eachother, and have a marriage with children, will have thier children to grow into great people. and the other the children may have problems with thier own life as adults.
    I have seen it many many times.
    so i feel, if you do not love, you should not marry.
    many times some marry for all the wrong reasons..
    i feel marriage should be based on love and only love....
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