first of all we knows about what islam says about love and i don't read about love before marrige and there is no permission in islam to do like that and gals can't come infront of any body only we can chat.
Ok.. Why don't you try writing her a comment on her profile?.. Insya'allah she will receive the mail pertaining the comment and eventually will read it. Then maybe after that you guys can try to work something out.
If i could i would help you, but i'm a non paying member myself too. Sorry.