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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 09:48

If that was true than why are there muslim men marring women who are christains than muslims them selfs? I think its unfair to pick on the women if the men are doing the same thing .



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Posted on Thu, Jul 27, 2006 05:41

Well, a muslim man is only able to marry a christian/jyew woman that belivies in her religion.
Since both Christianity and Judaism forbids any multi-religios marriges a muslim man will not be able to marry anyone other than muslim women.

This means both muslim men and women can only marry muslims.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 12, 2006 07:18

a salam alykoom all
nowadays its really very strange how some muslims want to change islam According to how is good for them
Like in the west its said that man and women are equal thoughit?s a big lie that they them selvesdon?t believe it this women liberation coz the women there needed itBut we who go and live there are so impressed by the idea that we want to change our believes according to it
In Islam there are some rules which are fundamental not judgmental
Its either you believe in Allah and do it by trusting allah
Or you still have something in your heart and you want allah to change islam for your sake
For sures there are good reasons for what is halal and what is haram
And its good to know it the golden rule ? every thing is halal except bad things ( al khabeth)
But the thing is when we want to know to make sure that allah is telling the truth (astaghfurr allah)
For example questioning why men get to marry Christian and Jew
Why women cannot do that
First of all this rule is very sure and all Muslim scholars agree on it
Secondly this rule was made to protect the Muslim women?s rights
Believe it or not
The simplest thing if that man abuses you to which law would u go to a muslim judg
Well he is not muslim and he has all the right to refuse
What about ur children are the muslims or not
Any way I wont talk about this for long but I just want to say to muslim sisters
Fear allah if you agree that allah said muslim man is responsible for all of your expenses strating with the wedding and Mahar ending with every thing from A to Z even if you were working and you were very rich he has no right to ask her anything except if shes welling to give
And plz don?t say ppl do this and that coz ppl are not living by the islam some muslims don?t even pray or fast does that mean there is something wrong with islam and as one sister said some women don?t know there rights
Takeitor leave it not so amused by islam no one is forcing u to be muslim



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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2006 07:11

i refuse to judge.
no.no.no.
not me.



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Posted on Sun, Apr 16, 2006 11:33

Bismillah,
I shall like to add that today's people of the book especially Charistians don't fall in the catagory of monothiests they believe Jesus as the son of God which is haram in Islam. God doesn't need a son or daughter. So only the Jews remain as monothiests.
One more important fact; any non Muslim couple; one partner becomes Muslim the marriage breaks then and there; untill the non Muslim spouse becomes a Muslims they shall stay allof of each other; On the second spouse becoming Muslim, then they can have Islamic marriage called Nikah.
Wasssalam,



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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 16:30

green567 write:
If that was true than why are there muslim men marring women who are christains than muslims them selfs? I think its unfair to pick on the women if the men are doing the same thing .

In the name of Allah,
It seems that you dont know that muslim men are allowed to marry people of the scriptures(christians,Jews) also muslim men can marry women who accept Tauheed (believing in oneness of God)



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Posted on Tue, Mar 21, 2006 16:39

AOA

Yes that is right a muslim woman is not allowed to marry AHL-eKitab(people of the book) or Kafir.Othrwise she lives a haram life.
Sorry I might right a bit away from the tpic but there is on more very important thing hppening i our society which is " muslim men are running for chirtan women more while many muslim girls are uffering coz of this thing this very depessing to say but when they cross there ages of marriage and arenot married they aregoing towards HARAM and even in ISLAM men are allowd to marry AHLE-KITAB only through certain rules set by A-Hadith and quran
Sorry brothers mny wont like reading this butwhat really just madeu think that u are free ofall bounds???
MAY ALLAH KEEPUS IN HIS AFIAT and believe me go to Pakistan o any other third world muslim country and u will find real beautiful girls both coz of their faith and by looks no less than and non-muslim "GORI" waiting for right man and May Allah make it easy on all of us to get his GUIDANCE ..amen
This is an issue i wish to speak on with any brother running for woldly desires and have been seeing alot around
WS



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Posted on Tue, Mar 21, 2006 06:22

Hi, I have to totally agree with you on this subject.... I am not Muslim myself nor was I very much of a religous person until I met Islam from Cairo, Egypt... He has opened my mind & heart to so many things and I want to learn all I can about the Islam religion... He is over joyed that I want to do this for myself and for us..... I got to tell you it's so hard being so far away from him I'm here in Southern Ontario and him in Egypt.... and once a week we talk on the phone for a good half hour...
Have a great day everyone... And may Allah bless you all....

Lots of Love
Kimberley

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Posted on Mon, Mar 20, 2006 13:43

Bismillah,

I ve noticed some muslima(s) are seeking christian males for marriage. This is totally wrong it is not allowed according to sharia to marry other then muslim man. If you do so you have went against Allah's law. It is a muslims duty to prevent wrong and to advice the good. thanks for reading.



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