Qustion arises that why westren culture is so popular among the young generation?ie dresses, music,education,living style,language,in all Arab countries,south Asia,FarEastren countries,Africa where people have rich n strong cultural background.People are gradualy diverting towards all those things which.in long term have very negative afteraffects as we can see in European society of today age.
I am enlightened by the info provided by baqi9 as i did wonder about this hadith. Can understand that for the guys it is much harder to differentiate betwen a mulsim and non-muslim at a glance. For females, at least we have the indication by the hijab.
Regarding the question about why the weatern culture is more popular, i think this is due to the agressiveness of the mass media: tv, movies, magazines, advertissements, etc. They are easy access to the yongsters so their influence is greater.
Just take an example like Christmas...in Asian countries you can find almost all the shops exploiting the season to garner more sales with decorated stalls, publicity, promotions, etc irregardless of whether the shopowners are christians or not. But for the Muslim festivals even in muslim countries, the exposure is incomparable.
Then there is the movie and music world....Accademy Awards, Oscars, etc.. more publicity, all these penetrating the minds of the youngsters. They cannot help themselves to be influnced as they are exposed and surrounded by such lifestyle...
Maybe something should be done by islamic bodies to challenge the media penetration...
If I meet a person and I do not know whether he is a kaafir or a Muslim, should I say salaam to him or return his greeting or not?
Praise be to Allaah.
It was reported in the hadeeth that you should say salaam to those you know and those you do not (narrated by al-Bukhaari, 12; al-Fath 1/55) but this applies only to Muslims, or those who appear to be Muslim. It was also reported that it is forbidden to say salaam to Jews and Christians, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ?Do not initiate the greeting of salaam to a Jew or Christian, and if you meet them in the street, push them to the narrowest part of the road.? (Narrated by Muslim, 2167). He also said: ?If the People of the Book greet you with salaam, say ?wa ?alaykum? (and also upon you).? (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6258).
But at that time the People of the Book were distinct from the Muslims in their dress and appearance, and they were not allowed to resemble Muslims. But in these times, unfortunately, many Muslims look like them, and we can no longer tell the difference between a Muslim and a Christian. Everyone - except for those whom Allaah wills ? looks the same in dress, in being clean-shaven, in wearing nothing on their heads, or wearing western-style caps, so the matter is more confusing. If someone who looks like the mushrikeen says salaam to you, say ?Wa ?alaykum,? and do not initiate the greeting, because of the uncertainty about him. If he objects and tells you off, then apologize to him. You had reason to act as you did, because you did know whether he was a Muslim or a Christian, because he is not dressing as a Muslim and prefers the dress of the Christians and others. Tell him that ?whoever imitates a people is one of them? (Saheeh, narrated by Imaam Ahmad, 2/50-92), and advise him to distinguish himself from the kuffaar and to dress as the Muslims dress, like his father, grandfathers and the scholars of the Muslims. If he persists in what he is doing, this means that he likes the characteristics of the Christians and is imitating them, and that he despises the Muslims and is going against them, even though he does not gain anything from that besides blind imitation. This indicates that he admires those kuffaar and thinks that their worldly achievements and inventions, etc., stem from their false religion. This is going too far, for the Muslims are wiser and more able to invent and produce, so he should not be deceived by the Mushrikeen.
Al-Lu?lu? al-Makeen fi Fataawaa al-Shaykh ibn Jibreen, p. 49
Salaam walekum again brother!!
my reply was adopting their style, not culture, the are many diffrences between stlye and culture. moreover to answer your question, yes we can devlop ourselves without adopting their cultur, infact we can devlop ourselves only if we followed our prophet and Sahabas's ways. however i must tell that where im from we never adopt anyone's culture, we stuck to our own.
wa,alekumassalam Brother,mypoint was,if we r adopting westren culture,why the westrens r relactant to adopt our culture?We must show our strog will to be strickt with all our cultural n moral values.Do u think thatwe cant develop ourselves without copying them.
I am a proud Arabic and proud Muslim. I love my religion and culture, but let me just say that currently the western style is the uniquest that's why we like and adopt it, and a i don't see any problem with that.