I have been wondering the same, except in my case it is different. I am very polite.
I think if a woman wants the man, she can express herself, but not too forcefully. Men don't like that. A present of a homemade cookie or other treat can often entice a male to at least talk with you. At the very least he will say thank you. You've then exchanged at least two words each, thank you, and you're welcome?
Hello sister, you are beautiful, i have a question for you, i was reading your old posting about a guy you liked at the corner store, how is that going? I was just intrigued because a year ago i fell in love with a guy named Wahleed as well and i wish i could still be with him but unlike yours, i found out that he is currently married back in egypt. crushed my heart and i still don't think i'm over him.