I have never had a relatiuonship and never would brother i am from the UK and I was virgin before i marry alot is to do with your upbringing Alhumdulliah my parents gave me love and fear of Allah. May Allah save us from Haraam Ameen May Allah bless you with a pious partner Ameen
All of us are looking for a good partner to keep way to ALLAH and improve our faith and have a good muslim family; but...I say but because it's so difficult to find him/her cause people are not looking for religious person but looking for materials, beauty... and they forget that our prophet (SAW)warned men to choose religious woman and warned women to accept religious men.
I feel the same thing. I cannt find someone Serious, but i m sure there r still Good guys somewhere... we need to keep looking , Allah know everyone's heart and believes , so In shallah :) we ll find what we 'r looking for .
Assalamu aleykum all muslim.
Very difficult to find a good girl for marriage nowadays too much hard...
Very difficult to find a good MEN for marriage nowadays too much hard:(
Im too search wa dont see where it is good muslim. But before i have 1 friend, where i be not muslima. Alhamdu lillah new i in Islam.
Honestly i do understand you brother, cause now days its not only difficult to find only girls who havent relationship before, its also difficult to find a guy who hasn't relationship before...as my friends use to say to me..just keep your hope and be patient and you will find the one who hasn't have relation before..insallah you will find the one. Amiin.
i was talking about brother ahsarfaraz 2000, he assumed that i was talking about the whole of pakistan when i was only givivng opinion,
yes i agree when u say that there are some who over come the forbidden fruit...thats wot i was talking about in the first place.
i would just lie to convey a message to guys and girls who think that im pointing a finger at all pakistanis for being primiscious...PLEASE READ MY COMMENT BELOW CARFULLY... i was only talking about my experiance not pointing fingers at anyone in particular!!!!..i have cousins out there for crying out loud...i was just refering to my husband...i havent said anything about his family yet....n that would cause an uproar itself.
im a pakistani my self and damm proud of it..primisciouty can happen any where even under your nose n you wouldnt even know about it.
however i personally feel that its how strong ones iman is that stops a person fron doing anything that is haram.
life experiance has taught me this...
if an apple was available to everyone frely then not everyone would want it..however if it was not then everyone would want it..u can be in a third world country or in the western society, if sex is a taboo subject and your parents are forever saying to u ' if i find out ur doing this n that i'll kill you' then that it self would make some of us want it..not saying everyone but like i said b4..its ur iman..n im glad mines is strong.
the question is big but you have the answer,all what u did before u have to be sure ur wife did it before,and also what u will do in future,she will do it in future,but the difference u can hide this but she can feel it,but u can't knew if she hide.
repair ur self at first,then god will reward you by girl similar like you.
i hope you can think in my words
well u know most men wouldnt belive in saying that but you did, one might assume that ur lying like most men do, but i belive you coz u sem to be sincere. well i hope that u do meet her brother, and i take my hat off to you for saving your self and educating your self in deen.
i was a virgin when i met my husband but he wasnt....and he was fron pakistan ( an islamic state) one would think that ; that kinda stuff dont go on in countries where it is frobidden.
just goes to show that people are'nt all that they say they are.